does he like me or not?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Pinky98, Feb 22, 2010.

  1. Pinky98

    Pinky98 Member

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    I recently started talking to this guy i know from work (hes at a different location, so i technically don't' work with him). we've been talking every day for almost 3 weeks and we hang out every time he is back in town. I'm beginning to like him.. a lot and i can't tell if he feels the same way or not. I never text him first or anything he always starts the conversation and its never about anything really. its just random and funny usually. we have a lot in common and the last two days he hasn't been really talking to me. don't get me wrong, he we have talked but not nearly as much as normal. Any suggestions on what to do next? i could just ask him but hes very cocky and sarcastic (just like me) and i can't tell if he means what he says or if hes joking around.
     
  2. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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  3. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    Just go for it. Life's too short to play those kinds of games.
     
  4. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    I don't think he would spend so much time talking to you and texting you if he wasn't interested.
     
  5. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    The poster has 1 post. I think we just got played...:toetap05:
     
  6. raz5

    raz5 زینب

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    i don't think so
     
  7. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    Why?
     
  8. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Ever heard of "hit it and quit it"? :(
     
  9. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    Yeah... I generally assume that when people only have one post in this forum, it's because they just signed up to ask advice.
     
  10. LeeLooD

    LeeLooD Member

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    if this is true (i agree) then she didn't even came back to say "thanks".. lol.
    She probably posted this same text in 5 different forums to see who answered first and follow someone's advice.
     
  11. Pinky98

    Pinky98 Member

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    actually miss "im gonna assume i know this girl" (LeeLooD). I haven't replied cuz i have this thing called a Job. In fact i have 2 of them.. Thank you to your replies.. its just so confusing. and im really shy so im not gonna just come out and be like what do you consider us as cuz thats too forward for me. lol
     
  12. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    1. No guts, no glory.
    2. Fortune favors the bold.

    You can either sit around waiting for him (and if you're lucky he will say something) or you can take the initiative. And shyness may be a reason for your silence, but it's not an excuse. Take it from someone who used to be socially inept. ;)
     
  13. Pinky98

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    sorry i've been gone for a while guys but i did what you said.. i took the initiative.. talk about being nervous. lol. it didn't go horribly bad but could have been better.. but the good thing is we are on the same page.
     
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