I received this e-mail from my wife today: Even though it hurts (bad), I know that you like it...so I want you to do my ass tonight. I promise to just lay there and take it (no matter how bad it hurts) like your good little slut, so that you can get off. Cum in my ass or pull out and cum on my face like you like, it's up to you..." there was more, but that's all that readers would probably be interested in. This only happens 2-3 times a year, so we'll see how it goes. I just thought that I'd share...
Sounds like this really fucks up her self esteem. Shes your wife/lover not your slut! granted I dont know if she gets off of being objectified but to me it sounds like a negative thing for her and a positive for you and that is selfish. However I could totally be wrong so sorry if I offended. However, give her love.
Why don't you make sure you do it properly so she will like it more often? Lick her ass, lick her pussy while using a lubed up finger in her ass, and go slow when it comes to the actual act, slow for a while anyway. Take your time, don't ruin your chance to make it a regular thing...
What? Why would you want to do it when it hurts her so much? How can it be pleasurable for you when you can see she is in pain?