Help with girls, NOT SURE WHICH ONE!!!

OK I have been dating this one girl for 3 months now.

She used to be so nice and she isnt that way anymore, she is VERy attractive.I am more mad with her than happy.

Theres this other girl who really lieks me, she is much nicer but not as attractive. What should I do? Keep being stressed from the attractive girl or go for the unattractive?

 

Dude, go for whichever one makes you happier plain and simple. I mean if you had a winter coat that kept you all warm and toasty but looked "eh'" and one that looked sharp as heck but was paper thin and lined with needles and thorns, which one would you freaking wear??

:cheers2:

 

Fritz is right on that part...

But why not be single?
And not go for any of them...?

 

Being single can be a rough thing especially if all your friends are "involved".

Of course I just sort of got out of being single after a 5 year break and it's driving me a bit nutty already (Mostly a distance factor. )

There is allot to be said for overall peace of mind, but having a cuddle buddy is always nice provided they're within reaching distance of course.

 

I get you fritz...

But I feel like this situation is totally different. His dilemma isn't that serious.


I just feel like he wouldn't be happy with either. And he just learn to live independently. And single for a while.

 

Well, if your girlfriend of 3 months is stressing you already, that's not a good sign things will last.

And the ''unattractive'' girl? - maybe you should give her a shot. Kindness and sweetness go a long way.

Not to be mean or anything, but how ''unattractive'' is this girl? Was she beaten with the ugly stick twice or what?

 

sounds like you need to break up with the pretty bitch and go for the other chick. who knows, she might be a wonderful person! and if she's not, well there's other fish in the sea.

 

Your girlfriend was nice to you at first. Now another is being nice to you (again, very possibly, at first).

Before jumping, try talking to your girlfriend (calmly!) about how your relationship's going lately. If she's unhappy you should try to find out why - it might be 'fixable'.

Be cool.

 

If she changed, that means she was probably pretending to be someone she isn't. That's a lie. So.. she lied to you just to get you to be with her.
Sometimes.. not to say.. most of the time.. extremely attractive women have no personality, so they have to act in order to get men to be REALLY interested in them.. not only sexually speaking.

The other girl sounds ok, but just be careful since you must get to know them better before to get into a serious relationship.

Final Advice: fuck the current one.. go for the new one.