creepy guy

theres this creepy guy that sits behind me on the bus and tries to smell and touch my hair when he thinks im not looking, he also roars linkin park and blink 182 songs at the top of his lungs so loud that i can hear it even when my headphones are as high up as they go

...just thought you'd like to know

 

sit in the back - he can't sit beside you if you're in the back.

 

And all the cool people sit at the back of the bus... Hehe whatever, creepy people are creepy...

 

I'm creepy.

 

omg, i read this, and i thought:"okay, this must be my friend steph!" 'cause the exact same thing is happening to her, but then i saw that you're from chicago, so i guess i was wrong. if he's bothering you, just tell him that he's making you uncomfortable.

 

Yucky... I would also suggest you sit in the back of the bus if possible.

 

the scary loud ghetto people sit at the back of the bus

 

meh just tell this kid to fuck off then. do it real loud too

 

I'd probably tell him if his greasy little finger touched my hair one more time I'd break it off and shove it up his ass along with his head

 

haha if a chick ever said that to me i'd laugh straight up

 

No, it sounds like he just wants some attention, but mainly yours. He's prolly feeling lost and alone and prolly doesn't have too many friends because he's not had enough attention for along time. Kids like that usually don't get enough hugs at home either. In fact, he's prolly not that creepy at all, but acts that way so someone will notice him.

So notice him. It doesn't mean you have to like him. It doesn't mean you have to go out with him. But be friendly and let him know he doesn't freak you out, yes you have his attention and if he wants a friend, he doesn't have to act that way. In fact, all he had to do was act nice and civil and start up a an intelligent conversation one day, correct?

 

tell a guy friend to tell him whats up or a big bro if you got one...i do it for my little sister all the time

 

Whatever, you don't need a boy to defend you. You have your own brainpower. You're a smart, sophisticated, reasonable being. You know Jedimindtricks.

Apparently this guy has learned enough about you to spook you. Tell him what you know about him...and then tell him to go home and give his parents a hug.

 

I think that is some great advice. Threadstarter, you should go talk to him, maybe even go smell his hair.

 

anyone that gets a kick from smelling random people's hair probably isn't worth knowing

 

Take out a cell phone, hit some arbitrary numbers but dont call anyone. Talk quietly like you dont want him to hear.

Be like "Hello? Yeah, I have a problem, if you could help me out. Some guy keeps touching me and smelling me. I'll stop the bus at ________ if you want to meet there. Yeah... oh, oh no, dont do that... its not that big a deal, its just- I dont really think violence is the answer- if you say so... see you in a few... bye" Then just shoot him a sideways, pitying glance and see how long until he gets off. If not a strong friend (boyfriend, brother, whatever) you can try to fake the cops. =P

Bet that will solve your problem without needing to even confront him. Just be sure its in the day with other people on the bus so he doesn't try anything shifty with you...

 

haha...well don't worry jennyflower, im not as bitchy in real life as it may seem i am on here...ive been talking to him for almost a year now...but he still touches my hair...(him touching my hair was how we met too)...i do talk to him, infact i start up conversations..but yes he still is kinda creepy, i said hi to him and then he told me that shaving his pubic hair was fun and that he liked to do it..


and wharfrat...i dont have to do it, he's already jealous of my guys friends, so i dont think ill have em do anything

 

Ohh, so you kinda know this creepy guy... then my fun solution isn't really apllicable =P

Just ask him to stop touching you if thats the case.

 

well now its more like a breathing in my ear thing...but oh well ill learn to deal right?