I need some advice, please be open minded...

I don't give a flying fuck what the other aspects of your personality is... You HAVE NOT met every hooker in the world, nor even close to it, so for you to make any judgement against all hookers is an automatic prejudicial and intolerant comment... And I am quite comfortable assuming from that, that you are not the type of person I like.

 

i've yet to be disproved.

and you lack tact. not very admirable.

 

You never will be disproved either, because you have already made up your mind...

And that is why I don't really give a fuck if you think I have tact or not...

 

He's not some $10 hooker who was strung out on coke, he was getting over $200 an hour and he didn't use drugs.
His apartment is gorgeous too.

The thing that bothers me if he doesn't respond on facebook and I see him out and about in a bar then It would be awkward.

Maybe I should just give it up though. I just want to know that he's happy.

 

Would it be awkward if you saw him at a bar now?

 

If you had a personal life together- I mean a CONVERSATION YOU DIDN'T PAY FOR, then I don't see the harm in saying hello at least or "bumping into one another".

Don't say sorry, don't come off mush or regretful. just have a conversation and let it flow out. Maybe eventually you'll feel comfy talking to him about then, but don't do it right off the bat or you'll scare him away.

--if it was all professional and no personal ties then just let him be, don't bother at all-especially if it's going to be awkward.

 

...and he has a point there btw. If it would be awkward in the bar now, then FB isn't any better.

 

I suppose it would be a bit awkward if i did meet him in a bar now, not because I'm embaressed, i wouldn't know weather to say 'hi' or not. I think I'd just smile at him and see what response i would get.

 

Therefore, you messaging him isn't going to change that...

 

well, you are no longer a 'john' and he no longer is a 'whore' so i dont see why you 2 cant be friends...although it would be pretty awkward 2 see him later on...you should just acknowledge that what happened happened and not put 2 much focus on it and focus on the present task of getting to know who he truly is until your comfortable enough to talk about your 'previous encounter', but joking about it might help ease the tension i guess...

 

Then stop whining about him expressing his opinion. Jesus Christ

 

You want to stick your nose in here, okay asshole, where did I whine about him expressing his opinion?

I told him to grow up (expressing my opinion) because he showed how fucking childish he is, because adults understand that you don't meet two people and base your judgement of EVERYONE who does the same JOB on them.

I didn't tell him to not share his opinion.

So until you can begin to understand the english language.... fuck off...

Thanks..

 

Perhaps it would be easier just to leave it.

And leave it to fate to see if we bump into each other.