There is a girl I like at a tarot group I attend. We started chit chattin after the meeting, we discused things from Feri to Owls. I messaged her a few days later. She responed wtih links about the topics we discussed, I sent her a reply and she hasn't answered. The next meeting is next week but I don't know what to do. I really like her but I don't know how to go about asking her out. If someone can give some insight that would be most helpful.
My advice: get three different numbers from three diff girls before you tell her you'd like to spend the night with her. Even if it takes a year. You're obviously hung up.
I guess you are right. But I would like to go out with a Pagan and finding Pagan women around my age bracket that are single is very hard. But again you might be right.
Ok, if your identity with her is ideological, then I would say be friends first. HOWEVER, major red bells ring in my head. Women are still women...and they are prone to saying "no" unless you have something to offer them (especially if you want a full-blown relationship from jump). Maybe your paganism will lend you status in her eyes... But the fact that she didn't pick up the phone, makes me think the woman part is, so far, speaking louder than the pagan part. Maybe she's looking for The Pagan with the biggest sacrificial knife, or something.
Before thinking about asking her out you need to find out more about her. Don't send her any more messages, whenever you see her again at the meeting then try to get a chance to talk to her (please don't be obvious) and talk to her like nothing happened. After a couple of minutes of talking about different things you ask her if she got your second message. Depending on her answer, you can make something out of it. Example: "OH yeah, i got it" <--- i got it but i didn't care "yes! im sorry i didn't answer i was busy" <--- hmm maybe she cares "no i didn't." <----- i didn't get it but i dont care either. "no i didn't, what did it say??" <---- i didn't get it but.. please tell me !! the way she talks, the way she looks at you.. those are things you can READ and find out if she's interested or not. If we like a guy, we like to let him know.. but not too much. Learn to read the signs... tarot must teach u something.
