Standing, sitting, lying, or upside down: Your position on oral positions

Alright, here's one you don't hear too much about, probably because to most people oral will be good whichever way. I'm curious about this one, though, for a number of reasons, one being that I suspect pornography to influence the way people go about their oral business.

In porn, the default fellatio position has the man standing with the woman (or other man) kneeling before him, for reasons both aesthetic - this position is felt to astutely dramatize the power exchange between the two parties - and practical, in that it is technically easier to shoot.

I myself enjoy this position most, being a visual person this provides an unobstructed view of the action, and I feel there's something 'epic' about this position, while lying down or sitting strikes me as more 'casual.' Conversely, I like to return the favor with her standing above me and me kneeling, though not many girls I've been with could get off this way.

The thing is, I remember when I was in highschool - before the web 2.0 boom and internetporn was everywhere, that's how old I am - that while most girls would be fine with going down, the precondition would be that I lie perfectly still on my back.

In recent years, though, I've noticed an increasing 'sophistication' taking place in the blowjob department, i.e. girls actually requesting we do it porno-style, deep throat attempts of varying degrees of success, moderate thrusting and so on and so forth.

So, I guess besides what your personal prefference is, what I'm curious about is also whether any of you feel pornography plays a prescriptive role in sexual practice, in shaping the way people think they 'ought' to go about things, setting a new 'standard,' etc.

 

Oral for me is always mutual - ie the old fashioned 69 position.

Share the experience.

 

How have you changed since high school? Are you more assertive with your sexual requests? Less likely to accept the status quo? Maybe you steer oral encounters toward your desires more than in the past. You cannot discount your role in the situation. It is not simply your partners' changes to be considered.

 

I love to give blowjobs. always have. to me, giving head is my ultimate position of power over a man. i mean, at any time, you could really do some damage. i never have and never will but i like the power in giving a good bj. i have a pretty accomodating throat, with barely any gag reflex, so i have no trouble with any position in this. i have seen a lot of porn where the girls do seem like theyre doing whats expected in giving head, but it doesnt always look "authentic". i mean, i have to assume, barring any major side issues like over- teething, or vomiting on your dick, enthusiasm is really the key, right?

either way. now that we got all that out of the way. im a big fan of getting under a man, and letting him just ride it in my face. its a rather lazy position for me, and he gets to really get into it. also noteworthy for me, are always couch bjs. i dont know what it is, but if hes casually watching the news or cnbc or some arbitrary shit, i just wanna kneel in front of him, and lick all over him, surprise style. i mean, who doesnt love a good blowjob, really?!!

oh, but, i never got any ideas about how to give head from internet, more just from talking to my girlfriends, and practice, practice, practice.

 

I love getting head while standing. I'm with you on that one...

 

I like the tried and true position of him standing me kneeling. Its a good angle to enter the throat at and he likes the view.

 

now, YOU are an absolutely AROUSING woman 60daygirl (your name alone is suggestive in a mind like my own, though it may be a completely innocent title). I agree with you. The most important part of receiving a BJ is the female's willingness to please, nay, desire, to please. Not a submissive desire (atleast not in my case), but a genuine, mutual satisfaction.

I think the more sophisticated enthusists of smut will turn the channel, flip the tube, etc as it might be if a blowjob is any less than sincere and authentic. To view an example of a delightfully gifted oral mistress check out Annette Schwarz . Watching her eagerly devour a wand is heavenly.

While most men have, no doubt have had their dick sucked, most have not experienced the kind of beauty that you described. Remembering my own experiences and envisioning you kneeling before your man kissing, sucking, slurping his cock greedily is almost more than I can take. I would love to know the color of you hair, it's length and whether you like wearing pigtails; the color of your eyes and the tone of your skin to complete this perfect picture.

The man (men) in you life are incredibly lucky to have come across woman as orally liberated as yourself!

 

I always insist on going first; if she does me first, I'm unable to immediately reciprocate. So I like to have her lie down, pull her knees back (no! I don't bark orders, just little nudges - takes a while what with kissing, nipple play, fingers going wild to increase juice flow) and dive in. Usually, if she's up to it, I just flop down alongside and close my eyes. It's a little trick I learned at 12...my imagination is too good to waste on "epic" positioning for viewing pleasure (sorry, Cecil.) Think I'll wake her up now.....