giving head is easy...

Very thorough reply sindalue, haha, text lessons only As far as the prince albert it's something i want to do for myself, i want to feel it all the time And head is a sore subject, i'm a bit wide for her mouth unfortunately.

 

You're putting this PA on a pedestal, dude. It doesn't feel THAT great. You're not walking around, jizzing yr pants constantly.

From what I'm told, I give GREAT dome. I don't dig doing it, though. Not one bit. Dicks kinda weird me out. Only way I actually enjoy it is if I'm legit into the guy, then it becomes a matter of being happy in giving pleasure to someone I care about... which is extraordinarily rare anymore.

 

Sounds like you've reached a point in your life where you're more about living and havin fun than being with someone special. I kinda feel like that rite now. And for the PA i'm going next week.

 

Wow, I wholeheartedly disagree.

 

i just dont like it, cuz i get NO pleasure from it. but i do agree, its easy.

 

You get NO arousal pleasing a man?? Dam I won't get off good unless I know I'm pleasuring my woman.

 

It's definitly better to participate in activities where both partners feel good

 

69 then

 

Thats what me and my x did because i never really liked it but it was a way of compromising.

Exept it was difficult since he was 6 foot tall and im 4 foot tall.

I agree with fae.

 

Some women are better at blow jobs than others. One comment I have is that there seem to be some who use a lot of hand while sucking it and others who don't. I saw some woman who thought she was great at bj's explain how important she thought using her hand was while sucking. I think thats wrong. The best blow jobs are when the girl takes it way into her mouth and uses the right amount of pressure in the right place. No hand is necessary. Also, when I'm close to cumming I like the girl to go really slow. Of course, letting me cum in her mouth is a must.

 

haha i agree with that

 

Do not use hands and keep looking at ur partner eyes and just suck ...No hands.!

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The key is enthusiasm. If the giver is enthusiastic and truly enjoying what they are doing, the blowjob experience will be great. Getting bogged down in details and techniques is useless. If you don't enjoy giving a blowjob, the recipient won't enjoy receiving it.

 

I agree with not gettin bogged down in technique. It ruins the intimacy of it, which, IMO is the most enjoyable part. I went down on my guy for the first time durin my visit last week...it lasted for over an hour, and I was so exhausted, sore, tired, but OH MY GOD. I was so satisfied at the end...for those women who say there's no reward? I just don't get it. The payoff is hearing him tell me how good it feels, his moans and sighs...the payoff is when he saw close to the end that my hair was sweaty and everywhere, so he gathered it up for me in his fist and lightly tugged on it to relieve the pressure off of my neck...and when he came in my mouth and then I laid my head on his stomach and he stroked my head...I was in heaven. I was so turned on...and even though there was no "O" in it for me at the time, I could have cared less. It was such an amazing experience. I will hold that memory sacred just as I will hold the memory of the first time we had sex...It was one of the most well-spent hours of my life, and I hope to have many more like it. The sore muscles the day after...they just served as a good reminder for me. I'm not into pain, but I was almost sad when they quit hurting because there was no more constant reminder...as we're long distance, the visits are few and far between... But next time I see him, the first thing I wanna do is just drop to my knees and go down on him again.

 

OP, are you just baiting here?

i love giving blowjobs and i'm great at it. but i don't assume that every women should love doing it, too, and put them down if they feel they can't do a good job and/or enjoy it. why are you being so condescending?

my girl friends who have asked me for advice don't think blowjobs are rocket science... most of them either had a) impatient or b) un-communicative partners/relationships. they didn't know what their mates like because both were too shy or too whatever to talk about it. some of them had past experiences that were negative that turned them away from trying again.

i think you have a shitty attitude about this. you could've made a nice thread saying "giving head is easy... who wants some tips?"

 

I wasnt being condescending...I just dont sugar coat things. It's an honest question. I wanted to know why some women have a problem with it. Don't judge. BTW, you actually answered my question and I appreciate that.

 

don't not let anybody else's unpleasant words bring you down, my dear Aphrodite

unless of course, well, you know

 

haha...You are awesome!

 

Remember that its not just about (or even centered) on sucking. It involves kissing, licking, stroking too and also looking up at the guy and talking dirty to him. That way the guy cums quicker and your mouth is less sore afterwards

 

Leave it to Kristin.