i have a girlfriend for 2 years but i'm in love with my guy bestfriend, he is straight but we've had casual sexual encounters here and there,he would watch straight porn and he would let me give him oral while he watch the straight porn and stuff like that nuthing major. He's got into dating again starting last month and i'm getting jeaslous. We still hang-out and with bunch of other straight friends but no more porno watching stuff. I miss him. What should I do? Should I be honest with my girl? And tell her what's happening or just try to forget everything and move on? Or should I find and hit on my other straight friednds hopfully I get lucky? I only dig straight guys by the way.
Being that you are only after the "str8" dudes, you have just cut off your major supply line of the guys both willing and ready. You also opted to go after the guys who may be now and then willing to give it a try but who will always find messing around with another guy to be "NOT their thing", sending you off to another, tiresome and futile search for more of the same. If you want to have some fun, go after the guys who want to play. Leave their being str8, bi, gay or whatever, be their sole concern... Since a dick your mouth always looks very GAY, I would let the GF go... BTW... KD
this is very true, you'll find disappointment over and over again. why don't you dig bi or gay guys? i'd tell your gf about your feelings but not the sex things unless you're cool with it. and if you hang with your friend again, if the time is right, i'd for sure tell him.
straightandhorny. Hi, 1. Your name is questionable. I'd say you are bicurious/bisexual and promiscuous. 2. You are giving bisexual males a bad name. Hetero girls will think: ahh, bi men just cheat with men behind their girls back, they can't be faithful. Please split up with your girl if you can not love her the way she'd like you to. It is not fair. You are putting her at risk (emotionally, sexually possibly, etc). C'mon dude. You know this ain't right. If you call yourself 100% straight (I'm sure you don't, but if you ever did..), then what do you call men that don't have encounters with guys?? straightamondo?
Str8 dudes have been cheating on their girls forever, too. Are they worried about being given a bad name??? Nope. I am all for NOT cheating but that reason is both wrong and implies that bi or possibly gay guys should be held to some sort of "higher standard" than then str8 men. Why should this be the case? Are we some freaks of nature? Are we trying to ingratiate ourselves with "the moral majority" who will eventually, one day, approve of our ways, if we show them that we are "more catholic than the Pope"... You cheat or not because you hold yourself to certain standards or not. It is about you and not about what the world may think about you. KD
if you only dig straight guys you're in for a really frustrating sexual life. i think you should think about what it is you really want. is it your best friend, another guy, relationship with a guy, or just sex with guys? find that out and do what you want to do. stay true to yourself cause that's the only thing you have.
