Hey guys this is my first post here and I joined so I could get older advice! I am 16 years old (Hope im not to young to join the forum) but anyway I have never been on a real date or been kissed. When I was 12-15 years old I was "with two different girls first off we just hugged and talked and flirted nothing more the second girl I kissed her on the cheek once but it never worked out. Anyway I am in this theater group its not a school program but a professional out door one. There is a bout 50-70 people in the group aged from 3-75 years old. There is this one girl named Ashley and I hadn't noticed her before because she was new and I had been with the group for 5 years. So everyones deal at the theater is to get cast members to sign each others programs and shirts she walked up to me and smiled and said hey would you like to sign my shirt CJ? And I basically said Yeah uh sure lol...Now according to my sister (shes friends with my younger sister and Ashley and me are both 16, we were 15 at the time this happenend) she told Ashley everything about all of us (Everything about me and my siblings and stuff and introduced her to all of us). Back on topic I took the pen and asked where to sign and she kind of laughed but pointed at her chest area so yeah the first time I officially met her I signed her right boob! I slowly began to like her. I added her on facebook and we started talking for like 2-4 hours about movies we liked books we read school and just general things. Anyway during are final performance we teens played a game quite similar to hide and go seek but you had to guess who the person was that was tagging people. It was just me and her in a dark stage and she said its your sister (while walking toward me) and I said oh lol how do you know? And she just laughed, I said convince me...And she said I have my ways and like licked her finger!!! So I finally thought I was gonna get a first kiss or something right and it turns out she had to go right at the moment (her parents showed up) we hugged and she left! Now its are winter play and still we didn't really talk but once we got down to the final performances we started talking alot more, she even came over to me once with a blanket and snuggled against me (it was like 40 degrees haha) and we didnt say anything just cuddled. So that was in 2009 now in 2010 (we are both 16 now) we started talking on myspace she wants me to be in her band (she asked me to be in it last year but we started talking about it this year)...lolz...Anyway I found out she wasnt a virgin,kissed alot of dudes and some girls and messed around during school break periods like taking pictures of ehr in sex positions and stuff...Anyway she said she was going to cut her self because her bf broke up with her and thats when i told her i really liked her and that i couldnt live without her and that she was beautiful and the ideal girl for every guy! She said I was such a sweetie and that we need to hang. I got her number and called her and she said we needed to hang like at the movies or something just anywhere!!! (Now she is 16 and has a 14 year old bf who just turned 15) She still talks to me but not has much and she isnt replying to any of my messages (just not has much cuz she isnt on alot) but yeah im going to see her all day every day this summer what should I do I really like her maybe even love...Can't stop thinking about her it hurts sometimes!!! CJ
sounds like chick has some issues and i'd avoid her if i were you sorry, i know that's not advice you want to hear
Yeah...I agree with you on that! I was thinking maybe using her for a first kiss or too get laid or something? lmao I dunno...Friends with benefits!
lol well her mom has like a form of cancer and her dad is living in California her mom is re-married so yeah and she has 2 little step brothers... Plus she is half european/half puerto rican and models some so yeah you can only imagine what im going through!
I gotta say, she sounded pretty great up until the whole 'my boyfriend broke up with me so I'm going to cut myself' part. Do whatever you think is right. If friends with benefits is what you want, go ahead, as long as you're not leading her on or making her think it's more than that. If she can't handle that, don't get into it. It sounds like she is really looking for attention, so she might go along even if she doesn't really want to. This is where you have to have some character and don't go for it if things aren't right.
