It's my mother's birthday. I washed every dish she used today, sucked up, cooked dinner, and waited on her hand and foot. Every little thing she asked for I did. My sister conveniently left this morning. She couldn't take her shit and it was only breakfast time! So then I also had my nephew to look after and God forbid I ask for any help while she sat around and did nothing and ordered me to serve her. To top that, I made a can of tuna for us (she specifically wanted to share it) before and she had to have one and a half sandwiches, which left me with more cheese and bread than tuna. She acted like one of those customers in a restaurant that causes waiters to spit in their food. And not even one thank you. All she had was a nasty attitude all day. WHAT THE FUCK?!
I know. I was about to say FUCK IT. But then she guilt trips us about such horrible daughters she has and how they do nothing for her. No wonder no one wants to do anything for her. My sister and I can't be the crazy ones if we both can't stand her.
Lol. Just guilt trip her for making you two her birthday bitches. Even better, expect the same treatment from her when its your birthday. If she doesn't do that you can give her shit for being a bad mom.
Lol if only that worked. She is the type of person that will ALWAYS make you seem like you're wrong. She has never, once, ever admitted she was wrong. I just want to move out and when I never talk to her again she will see how badly she's been treating me. Literally, I always second guess myself because she will never let me think I'm right or intelligent or anything. Sorry to rant. I let her read my poetry once and she said "What have you experienced that made you write something like that? You haven't been through that. I never thought that would come from you. Must have been a past life." She never acknowledges that anything I went through was worth being upset over. Not even my two year relationship in which I was cheated on and my heart broken. I figure since this is the Whiners forum I might as well have ranted a bit more.
If my mother was in a bitchy mood all day, after i'd do something i'd say "you re welcome" or something that she can noticeably see that im getting sick of her attitude. or just say "is something wrong?" maybe shes just miserable because shes getting older. you know how women are.
She was upset because my sister left. And I'm getting shit for it all day. I just called her and bitched her out for it. She said sorry but she didn't care, she was just happy she wasn't here for it. If I had said that she'd give me a nasty dirty look and go "thank you, oh saintly one" like I expected her to bow at my feet when all I wanted was just a little appreciation.
wow... why don't you just be the one who leaves at breakfest and make your sister take care of your mom. i know what guilt trips like.. they kind of make your heart squirm...... stay strong soldeir
