Sex during Pregnancy

I am currently in the early stages of pregnancy, and it came out today that my partner doesnt like giving me oral because there is a baby in there. He also said he doesnt feel comfortable having sex, because there is a baby in there, but he is ok with having sex for now because he cant tell I'm pregnant yet or cant feel the baby kicking yet.
I know and understand that this is a common feeling with males, and some females, but it doesnt make me feel any better about it, especially since all i can think about it SEX!!

Can a male please explain the feelings to me a bit more, and possibly give me an idea of a fair compromise? I just dont feel happy being expected to give and give and give and not get ANYTHING in return, I mean a massage would be nice...maybe even a sleep in in the morning..

And I hope I have posted this in the right place...I wasn't sure if this would be appropriate or not in here..

 

wait, can he really expect you to give without receiving? ò_o

For the record, pregnant women are hot, sorry for your situation

 

Thanks I think if I were a male I would find pregnant women attractive still. And yes, he seems to think its ok for me to give. Im ok with giving but theres only so much giving I can give before feeling a bit ripped off, and I think after about 2 years of giving and hardly recieving I think I am entitled to feeling ripped off I seem to be the giver in all aspects of our relationship, he seems to get away with it too *sigh*

 

Don't let him get away with it. You are the one carrying his child. You should be having him serve you right now. It's not right to expect you to go down on him if he won't do it in return. And it's not harmful at all. I actually saw a show about this, the only problem could be him blowing in your vagina. As long as he doesn't do that, there's no problem. Aside from his unwillingness to reciprocate, that is

 

That dude's weird. My wife is about a month pregnant and I'm hornier than ever....

 

maybe he doesn't want to have sex with you because you're being a hormonal pregnant bitch...


or maybe not.

 

I was watching a sex education show awhile ago and the same question was asked. I can't explain how your guy feels, but he should know that having sex won't effect the baby at all. The child is growing in the uterus, the vagina is too long for his penis to reach the child inside you. Here is a nice picture for clarity:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Scheme_female_reproductive_system-en.svg

Having sex will not harm the child, in anyway. As for him not giving you oral, I have no idea what logic he is using for that...

Maybe you shouldn't give until he does, hmm? Best of luck!

 

Different strokes for different folks. I can understand how he feels. It's not that he doesn't find you sexy, it's just that it's freaky to be licking and sticking a penis inside where his baby is gonna be coming out. Some guys don't care, some do. Just the way it goes. It's a mental block.

It sounds like you got other issues to deal with though if you've been dealing with this for 2 years before you even got pregnant. I don't really understand why some guys don't like to give girls oral unless there is a smell or hygiene issue, which, I'm going to assume, you don't have.

 

Thanks every one
I wouldn't say we have issues, he just isn't the guy to buy me flowers or gifts, and when I'm not pregnant he is happy to return the favour, just not after he got what he want, and not before either. Its just who he is he does try, sometimes. Me on the other hand, I love to spoil him.
Hormonal pregnant bitch? LOL I think I would rather that than being constantly horny and not getting some. I dont do hormones
I think he knows its safe, but like some one said, I think he just can't get it out of his head that our baby is in there, and I understand that, but it doesn't make it less frustrating.
I can't make him do something he isn't comfortable with, so I think I will just go with the flow and look after myself

 

I never really thought of not having sex while pregnant for that reason. It is sort of creepy, now that I think about it.
I mean, you are doing it right in from of your future kid .

 

he doesn't want to cum on his baby

>:|

 

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^ lmao

 

when my gf was prego. we fucked and fucked and fucked. One day I said Im a fuck you so hard ima make the baby come out and I did, she went into labor..

 

Nice!

 

full term .. her obgyn was always telling us to stretch the pussy with sex and it makes having baby easier. she had no epidural or drugs.. was really cool. To bad she abandoned me when I was in Afghanistan , I havent seen my son since 2002..

 

omg.... I'm sorry.

 

I'm so sorry to hear that

 

To me, pregnant women are beautiful. I wouldn't mind going down on one nor having sex with one if I was in a serious relationship with her.

I hope that you sort out your stuff

Take care

L_S

 

You guys need to go into your doctor together and talk to them about it so he can get reassurance from a professional.

I had sex all the way through my term w/ both of my kids. He should be happy for 9 months of condomless cum in your pussy fun with no worries, cause you are already prego. Sex should be better for the both of you while you are prego, you have alot more blood flow though that area and you will have mor eintense orgasms.

When you get really big lay on your left side and have sex so it helps blood flow.

But there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex during your pregnancy, like noted, get him some reassurance from your doctor. I hope that helps.