This is my first thread here, but I feel comfortable enough to post it I have never had Anal, and never really thought it would be something I would want to do. But lately I have been thinking about it and having fantasies about it. I know my fiance is interested to try it, and I am too, but in a small way I am really nervous and shy about it. Sometimes I find myself shy to even say I want to try it, so atm its a secret fantasy I have and my fiance doesn't know about it. How do I get past this, or is it something that will change with time?
If you tell your fiance that your want to try it out then he will think you are extremely awesome. Nothing to be shy about. There's nothing better than when both partners are interested. So just bite the bullet and go for it! Is there any specific reason you're shy about it? Don't want to get poop on his dick?
HAHA no not scared of that at all. I dont know, its something I haven't done and neither has my partner, and I'm not sure what to expect, or if the times he has mentioned it if he was serious or just joking kind of thing. Its a big step for me really.
my girl was the same way. i doubt he'll judge you if you tell him you wanna try it. and work it out a little bit first, dont just jump right into it
Highly doubtful... lol If you thought he was joking then he was probably testing the waters to see how you'd feel about it without just having to directly ask you since some girls would be like "WHAT? Ew, no!"
Besides that... think of it this way... you say he is your fiancee... and one would assume, at some point he will be your husband... How long will your marriage last, if before it even starts, you feel you can't be totally open and honest with him?
As with everything sexual, if you are thinking about it I would say try it. You can ask BF if he wants to try it (likely will) and then go for it as an experiment. You may not like it, so let him know it is an experiment. (Like is his dick thick?) Use plenty of lube and make him go slow. IDK, is he the kind of guy who likes oral - maybe him licking your asshole will make it more relaxing. I say this because I tried anal once - didn't like it and walked funny for a day. Really, my buddy Raul is kinda thick - I shoulda tried a skinny dick guy. Butt, I tried.
Just go for it. I remember my ex telling me she used to sometimes dream about me fucking her in the ass, that was a serious turn on shame she had such a tight ass, it never really worked.
I think you're freaking awesome! You'd be hard pressed to find a guy who isn't at least curious about sticking it in the poop hole. My wife was always massively agaisn't it and grossed out but she's slowly coming around. I even had her try a butt plug. Didn't get much in but we'll work on it. Hopefully sometime soon she'll be up for taking it in the brown.
So, AnonymousGirl... have you tried it yet? Masturbation or with yr Fiance, if so did you like it? ... any advice on how a guy should broach the subject with girls if he's worried about the 'WHAT? Ew, No!' reaction?!!!
You might be shy about it, but I'd definitely try and get over it and tell him. I'm pretty sure he'll be excited about it, and then you can finally do it for real and not have to only fantasize about it!
