I'm looking at engagement rings and I'm pretty lost. I've read a little about diamonds and metals and stuff, but it's hard to get a handle on how all this will translate into tangible every day things--what kind of upkeep will the ring need and how often? if platinum is stronger, does that mean it's better for holding the diamond too? Basically I'm wondering what kind of things should I know that a jeweler might not tell me if I don't ask. if you've been through all this before, what'd you go with and why? thanks.
it all depends om if your boyfriend/fiancee is the type to wear gold or silver...big and flashy or small and dainty...does he have massive manhands or small efeminate hands...that sort of thing... and the ring is not what needs upkeep....upkeep him....keep doin all the things he likes
I'm actually the guy...guess that was unclear. So if she wears silver a lot, would platinum be the top choice? Would that hold up the best? I figure it needs to last a lifetime so it makes sense to me to put the money toward getting the best quality possible.
dude i was messing with you.....if you really want to know you should peruse a couple reputable sites and study up...go in and talk to some jewelers.... i am reading in between the line here buddy but i am getting a strong vibe that you are one terrified motherfucker about gettin married....you should be more concerned that your ole lady is gonna last a life time..... next time i propose will be never but luck to you
I haven't a clue. For the most part I feel it doesn't matter. That's not what you wanted to hear and I will shut the hell up. But congratulations.
Just maybe try asking her what she likes does she like platinum or gold better? I mean if you go to a good place knowing what you want it'll be easier. A good jeweler will let you know the basics as long as you look interesed.
What should you know about choosing the ring? Debt ends more marriages than jewelry does. That's what you need to know when going into a jewelry store looking for the ring.
well, my dad replaced my mom's original engagement ring with one (i think it was helzburg or something) and if she ever loses a diamond (and she has lost a few over the years) she just takes it in and they replace it. so, as far as upkeep goes if you choose a mainstream jeweler make sure they have cleaning/ replacing stones policies. personally, i dont care for diamonds. at all. my "engagement" ring can be seen here http://www.concordecollection.com/jewelry/ItemDetail.asp?ISBN=SLSR so pretty, and worth wearing. the trick is to know what she likes. diamonds are falsely inflated in price. ask her what her favorite gemstone is in passing, if she prefers silver to gold (i do as well) then platinum is an ok option. id rather my darling take me somewhere than spend that money on an overpriced hunk of rock and metal. but im practical like that, i dont know if other women are. also, you can always propose first, and go ring shopping together, then you know she'll get one she likes. some stores offer a sort of "test" ring, so you choose your stone in a plain setting, then take her in to choose a setting she prefers. that may be a good option for you.
Alright so the first thing you want to do is make sure you don't shop at a commercial store or a mall. They have high overhead, rent, security, commercial decor, etc. I would suggest that you comparison shop online and figure out what your bottom line is in terms of cut, color, clarity, and carat weight. Then you visit some different engagement ring stores online and jot down a price comparison for each store. www.Adiamor.com has amazing prices and selection. Make sure The diamond comes with a certificate from either GIA or AGL The store has a good return/exchange policy (just in case) Take note of your girlfriend's style...is she trendy, is she classic and elegant? You learn a little about the 4 c's before you dive in cut, color, clarity, carat Good luck and congrats!
Keep in mind that most jewelry stores will let you exhange the ring after you propose in case she wants a different style.
Here is my advice: First, go to Helzberg. Its owned by Warren Buffet. They put the price on the ring and there is no negotiating. You don't feel like you got taken when you get a ring there. At other smaller jewelers who knows what you get and whether the price is fair. Second, buy the largest ring you can afford. All the crap they tell you about "inclusions" and "color" is complete BS. Just get a big one. More "inclusions" means you can get a bigger one for less money. Chicks like big diamonds.
i got a platinum one. considering my nervous hands and the fact that i'm brutal with them, the ring has lasted through quite a lot of abuse. simple tends to cause the least trouble.
