Obcessed over my girlfriend

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by forumdude2227, Jan 18, 2010.

  1. forumdude2227

    forumdude2227 Member

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    So i have been dating this girl for 2 months and I feel like I am obcessed with her, Like im ALWAYS wanting to talk to her 24/7. How can I stop being this way?
     
  2. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    Obsessed*

    Time will allow you to stop being that way. You are still in the early stages of your relationship and those feelings will change.
    Are you really 19?
     
  3. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    That's often the way relationships start off. They usually mature after six months to a year, in my experience.
     
  4. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Well you can't force yourself to stop feeling that way. Just notice that the feeling is there and let it be. You don't have to give in to it and try to control your girlfriend, but neither do you have to push it away and suppress it. Just acknowledge that it's there and refuse to let it dictate how you should live your relationship.
     
  5. missedit

    missedit Member

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    Last time I checked girls LIKED that crap.
     
  6. RobynCB90

    RobynCB90 Member

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    ^ It's true :) we do.

    Just be glad that you are capable of feeling so strongly about a person.
     
  7. crizz2001

    crizz2001 Member

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    she's not worth you losing your mind over!! get over her man!!
     
  8. Michael Phelps

    Michael Phelps Am I being detained?

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    Don't worry. It should wear off pretty quick.
     
  9. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    *sigh* people are still having relationships?
     
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