is it cheating?

if you are a straight guy and you dont wanna cheat on your gf but you really want to get fucked in the ass by a big dick is that cheating?
Theres no relationship or feelings involved and you would be getting fucked and not fucking someone so is it still cheating?

 

yes.

 

Yup. No doubt, it is. Unless, your gf says, she is OK with it.

 

If you have to ask if it's cheating, it's probably cheating

Also if you want to sleep with a man you're not straight, you're obviously a bit bi.

 

It is definitely cheating.

Also, there's no such thing as a straight guy who wants sex with another guy, that's just stupid. This is no less ludicrous that people saying that straight women can be sexually attracted to other women. If you want sex with another guy, you're bi. Simple as.

 

Seriously, wanted to be fucked isn't bi, prostate stimulation is awesome and there's only one way to get to it, but if you want to sleep with a man that's a bit bi.

 

a) if you don't discuss it with your current partner, and you have sexual interaction with someone else, regardless of gender or who is fucking whom... then it is cheating...

b) being a guy and wanting to have sex with a guy means you are at the very least, bi-curious...

 

who made you the Modern Day Kinsey Scale Keeper? Really... fuck off... millions of men enjoy anal play in monogamous hetro relationships for years..

Male anal play has N-O-T-H-I-N-G to do with orientation..Bloody fuckin hell there are thousands/millions of transgendered people who would argue as well..

Quit putting arch-type/stereotype expectations in you posts.

I have many friends, who are male, who after shucking the BS stigma & accepting their bodies, enjoy anal play everyday......

grow up

 

Its cheating unless she is ok with it.

 

You are right about male anal play not being bi or having anything to do with sexual orientation... unless of course you are a guy and you want to do that playing with another guy.

 

I know a guy that likes to take it in the ass regularly and hes not bi.. well he says he isn't..

I think your only gay or bi if you actually want relationships with them.

 

If he likes to take it in the ass from another guy, he is bi, no matter what he is willing to admit...

 

na man thats called living it up

 

to the OP.. unless its open you want cock in your ass.. its technically <shurg> cheating..

BUT other guys in your area feel your pain.. there are things called adult bookstores, gloryholes, public parks.. I can go on...

the bottom line is your trust/commitment to your lady vs your cock telling you need something.... lol

 

You've hit the nail on the head there. Anal play on it's own, isn't necessarily being bi. Getting that anal play from another man though, especially if it's his penis which is being used, most certainly is though. Guys who have anal with other men, or even fantasise about it most definitely are bi. And those who claim otherwise, are just in denial.

I don't agree with that. Fantasising about, or engaging in any sexual activity with the same sex makes you at least bi. (if you enjoy it)

 

Actually, I have to correct myself on what I said last time about this...

You are absolutely correct.... your friend may not be bi... but thats only if he only wants it from guys in which case he would be gay...


Oh yeah, and if the OP didn't think this himself... why did he post this in the gay forums???

 

That all depends whether he is attracted to women or not. If he is, then just wanting sex with guys makes him bi, not gay. Gay means being exclusively attracted only to your own sex.

 

Which would be why I said;

 

I was about to say, well he cant exactly get anal from a woman. But I forgot about strap ons.

Or he could just enjoy sex with both sexes, which would also make him bi. But yeah, I'd say anyone who enjoys sexual activity with their own sex is at least bi.

 

Methinks the poster doth protest too much!

The OP said:

"if you are a straight guy and you dont wanna cheat on your gf but you really want to get fucked in the ass by a big dick is that cheating?"

Anal play would be getting pegged by his GF.

Getting fucked in the ass by a big dick is def exploring bi territory.