You're right, who knows what would come out of it? That way, even if you ended up not being able to have sex with her, you might actually gain a good friend. See, that's a huge problem in modern society. I've been told that when I was around your age, too. There was a cute girl in a couple of grades below. I'd previously had only one girlfriend when I was 15. Anyway, the new girl and I got along and I thought asking her out would be the next natural progression.. Only, a friend of mine at the time was harsh against the idea saying I'd be labeled a pervert if I asked her out and no girls would want me ever again. He DID say I should go out with an older girl, though. Apparently that helps keeping your rep high. *shakes head* Plus, at the time there wasn't any older girl who I was actually interested in. As the result, I couldn't really ask nearly as many girls as I could have just because some of them were "younger" even though they actually seemed at least semi interested. And the ones I'd actually asked out during those years all were NOT interested. Oh, and that first girlfriend also ended up being my last during my high school days, too. My second girlfriend didn't enter my life until I was 21. Of course, I've since learned what that "friend" of mine was saying was a total BS. He and I are no longer friends, but that's because of something completely unrelated to this, lol.
Tough one to decide. You already have more control than alot of people since you havn't slept with her yet. If you decide not too do it yet than don't get yourself in a situation where you could. One night you might not be a strong as another.
wtf? If you don't fucking like her that much, don't waste her time or risk fucking her. Do you have any idea the damage you could do to her mentally? Is she looking just to fuck or is she looking for a relationship. The worst thing you could do is lead on a girl that young.
You're only 3 years older than she is. I don't think you should do it, but wanting to doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.
fuck it bruhhh do whatchu want! and if somebody doesn't like it FUCK EM! hahaha just roll with that dickhead attitude. Tell your friend he said EW because he isn't getting laid. xD
In Japan the legal age is 13 and their 30 year olds look like jailbait. Just think about it. Not long ago people would marry at that age or younger.
Should you do it? No... Will someone who is rabid against child molestors and pedophiles freak out on you over it... not likely... 14 is in the age where some kids are starting to look for sex. But as I stated in another thread... a good rule to live by is to respect the 'age barriers' of 16 and 18 (or 21 depending on the laws where you are). In other words, don't cross them. From a point of view of your own life itself, don't do it. If, for whatever reason, that kid who said they wanted it soooo bad beforehand, gets pissed off at you ANYTIME after, your life will be fucked... Not 'may be' fucked.... WILL BE. Because when you walk into court and this kid (in this eyes of the court) is sitting there weeping about how you cajoled them or maybe even forced them (wether true or not), the judge, the jury and the media will all see one thing only when they look at you. A sex offender. This is one reason I don't much like the way the sex offender list and restrictions, because they don't recognize a difference between someone being a predator and someone making a really poor choice. On the matter of 'age gap', it is true that age means little, when it comes to adults. Adults to kids, should always be considered wrong though. A gap of 2 years, at 14 - 15 can be a HUGE difference, at 60 it isn't even worth a blink. Once everyone involved is an adult, it doesn't matter 'how much' of an adult they are. That is the point that you become responsible for your own actions, good and bad, and if you choose to be with someone who is 70 years older then you, that is totally your choice and nobody should care... although some people will... lol
a few months ago i had sex for the first time. i am 18...she was 28. it's ok for a 17yr old to fuck a 14yrold but not ok for a 20 yr old to fuck a 14 yr old
Why are these girls hooking up with older, trashy drug addicts? Are you really that desperate, I feel sorry for the majority of girls that posted in this thread. Have some respect for yourself. :elf:
BURN IN HELL!!!! :] Nah, I was getting to know a gal who was 15, I am 19, and yeah I really wanted to fuck her. My dick has never gotten that aroused, she was extremely horny too. Probably sending out mad pheremones to eachother. I didn't have sex with her, because I don't want to go to prison. Plus be on a sex offenders list for the rest of my life.
Be careful, man. Stay away if she's a dramatic sorta girl, for sure. There's plenty of people serving multiple year sentences, with records that will never come clean and rules about living far enough away from schools, just because they wanted to fuck.
Thanks, but that's actually the age of consent in Canada. EDIT: Actually, for me being 20, my legal "cut-off" age is 15.
Wow thats nasty. I wasnt even thinking about sex at 12. I was painting my nails and hanging out with my friends like a normal 12 yr old
Origninally I was going to say no, but you fixed it. http://www.cbc.ca/canada/story/2008/05/01/crime-bill.html
Uhhh...YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! If any of my friends came to me and said they were with a 17yo i'd effin KILL THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!
