Dangers of anal sex

We've been together with my wife for 3 years by now, and when we were on vacation last summer we tried anal for the first time and we both liked it and kept practicing it a while when we returned home. There were only two major problems: 1. it's quite hard to get inside without sufficient lubrication, but we solved it by using spit and 2. faeces on my dick - didn't solve this one.

But one day my wife read an article about dangers of this joy - that after some years it may lead to some inner problems in her organism - fecals incontinence, guts deflection and other horrible things. And we stopped it though we both regret it still.
Can anybody share your experience of whether it is true, please?

 

Nothing bad is going to happen. I have been doing it for years and never had any problems. As for the shit on your dick, have her use a enema or shower wand to flush her rectum out.

 

Thanks for your reply, I've heard about enema but its usage sounds too, emm, weird it takes time to use it as far as I know and sometimes we want to start it immediately.
As for shower wand - I don't really understand - you mean she has to simply direct water flow onto the ass, cuz she usually did it, but that didn't help.
Can you tell me please for how many years u've doing it precisely? - that sounds amazing, cuz we only tried it for a couple of months and stopped because of the fear of consequences.

 

For all my ass play over the years, I've never had any shit on my fingers, dick, mouth or tongue. I've always begun in the shower and made sure to get a soapy finger up there and up mine too. Enemas are ridiculous - they are for cleaning out a constipated rectum. Not very lovey. A soapy finger and lots of lovin'.

 

I have been having anal with my wife for 8 years, usually about 1-2 times per week, so that's A LOT of anal over the years and her anus is till drum tight.

The people you heard of with anal problems are usually doing it wrong. If you are having anal with someone and it hurts, it means you are causing tissue damage of some sort.

Now if it hurts every time you do anal, then after years of penetration there could be some damage to the anus because all those times before when you were having anal it was actually causing tears in the anus and rectum which caused permanent damage resulting in a loss of tone and bowel control possibly.

As long as the anal is pain free than you know you are not causing any damage.

As far as the mess, you have 2 choices.

1. Which has been mentioned is an enema, it takes time, planning, and preparation for this to happen, but it's better than going without anal for the rest of your life.

2. Your wife needs to eat a good diet that is high in fiber. If she passes a bowel movement before anal and then washes her anus with soap and water it should be pretty clean. Have her use her finger and stick it up there and clean her ass as well as she can.

My wife also doesn't like enemas, we use option 2, and we RARELY have any messes. If you want to be 100% sure you are squeaky clean though, do 2 enemas.

 

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Thank you, your reply is really soothing, I think we're gonna use option 2 as well, but I don't quite undrestand the part about fiber diet - what kind of food does it include?

 

Most veggies, bran, fruits. Just add those to the diet as much as possible and she'll be fine. My wife doesnt use enemas, she just takes a shit and wipes up good. Works fine for us. Also, having a regular digestive cycle helps us plan out anal sex. If she goes at roughly the same time each day we know to steer clear of that time slot. Even so, weve had anal basically almost right after her pooping and dont have trouble. A little residue on my weener doesnt bother me at all.

Fiber, regularity = Anal ease!

 

What's this fiber diet crap? Enemas! They are very easy to use. Just go to your local drugstore and buy one of those home enema kits. Follow the directions and you'll be set. If you're still squeamish, take a second enema. Now with all the shit completely out of her system, you can fuck her ass with complete confidence that nothing shitty will happen. Of course, you can also stick your tongue in it and french it hard. That'll really get her going! Take it from the Backdoor Man himself, the ultimate authority of anal sex.

 

1- same person no danger
2- let your wife go to the bathroom before
3- don`t forget to use a water lub it will give ur wife great felling after some time your will return to spit

 

The backdoor man has spoken! Fiber diets are good for you anyways but they do keep things running smoothly lets say.

My wife doesnt wanna screw around with enemas. A good shit & wipe does just fine for us. "Clearing the way" as she says.

Besides, whats so bad about a little "anal sex evidence" on my shaft after a good butt-screw? Doesnt bother me or her. It happens ocassionally, so is life for the anal couples!

 

my experience has been that a hot/warm-water douche/enema (no chemicals!)... 2 hours prior to anal intercourse is the key... right/immediately before us no bueno.

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I prefer with no enema and no condom. It's more nasty that way. It's like opening up a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get.

 

I have to agree. My wife doesnt do enemas and I dont do rubbers.

Sometimes you get a little chocolate surprise.

 

"Clearing the way"!! That's hilarious!

 

When I was a young man in New Orleans, the gay guys all wanted me to butt fuck them - and of course I was always up for a fuck.

We didn't use rubbers then and when I pulled out of one cute guy there was shit all behind the head of my cock! YUCK! lots of toilet paper wiping and soapy washing. Kinda disgusting to see (butt obviously I survived the experience).

Anyhow, one of my regulars that never left shit on me said the guy should have taken a dump before we hooked up, like he always did. Hmmm, I did notice he always ran to the bathroom when it looked like I was going to fuck him.

So, maybe not enemas, but just a little effort of cleaning out the rectum naturally. IDK, I have never been a bottom.

 

I've only ever had one messy experience with anal out of all the times I've done it and that was that the girl I was with dirtied my sheets after spontaneous anal. We still meet up every now and again but now every time since then we've made sure to take necessary precautions so that doesn't happen again and all that entails is a good long shower and she makes sure like a few have said to really get in there and get it clean. Using the bathroom before hand and a nice deep clean should take care of it unless of course you're gonna make it a way of life then by all means change the diet up and use the enema's. Good luck!

 

Yeah, it was funny when she said it. Never heard it put that way before. I know now that when she takes a shit, shes making "room" for me. I know anal sex is happening soon!

 

Well some people do not like enemas, my girl is one of them. So if you eat a healthy diet with lots of whole grains, veggies, beans etc... you can have anal without using them.

 

Use a lot of lube. A little mess is part of the deal. Sometimes there will be and sometimes there won't. Enema's and the shower wand work great. There is no danger to anal sex over years of practice. Enjoy it for the rest of your lives...