So last night i had a dream about my friends sister and in the dream i went to hug her hello like i always do.. and she kissed me very passionately.. now his sister is 16.. now let me make this perfectly clear.. i would never ever ever ever let anything happend between us.. she is wayyyyy tooo young for me.. Ever since i started hanging out with them she has had a crush on me. when i go over there and hang out i hang with the whole family cuz they are like my family.. so her and i will often sit around and play guitar and just talk about stuff.. she is raised in a very strict baptist household and she has often spilled her heart to me about being home school and hating not knowing things in life.. so i try to offer the best advice i can.. in short i have no idea where this dream came from and i just woke up confused
Just a dream, man. Don't worry about it. The only reason why you probably dreamt of her is because she has spilled her heart to you and we usually like to entertain thoughts of people who adore us. THAT'S how self-centered and vain we humans really are. Hell, I have dreamt of having sex with ugly dudes that I have NO sexual attraction to WHATSOEVER(but I hung around them alot because they were fun and cool to talk to). Reality differs from Dreams. Just speaking from experience. Trust me lol
yeah that is true.. there is a difference.. it was just one of thoughs things that kinda tweaked me out so i just wanted to make sure i wasnt nuts lol
If she is attractive then she's attractive. The fact that she's 16 means that doing anything with her would be wrong, but it isn't unnatural or perverted to take notice of her.
well im 24 so the age gap is significant.. i do think it would be wrong for us to do anything because of this fact.. and due to her up bringing
i dont think its that big of a deal. if youre just her friend and have no feelings then dont worry about the dream. however, if you do have feelings for her (other than the feelings in your dick) then maybe just keep talking to her, tell her about how you feel, and wait until she is legal to do anything else that could get you in trouble.
The smartest thing to do would be to gather their whole family together, and tell them all about your dream. They will no doubt hear you with understanding, and mabey you two could get engaged.
