First Time

Ok well I have the oppurtunity to have sex with a girl I really like this saturday. But the thing is I will have ZERO fucking clue what I am doing and I'm afraid that I'll make myself look like an idiot, which i don't want to do especially with her. I also have Social Anxiety Disorder which makes me really nervous in situations like this. I will be so nervous that I'll most likely have to be drunk. Any advice is appriciated.

 

If she is also a virgin, than relax, she won't know the difference.
And be careful with her, it might hurt, so just be as gentle as possible. Kiss her, hug her, make her feel loved. Just talk first. Talk about how you feel, the both of you, before you do it. That way, you'll know. Talking is good.

If you do do it, it is pretty simple. Just stick it in lol, trust me, you'll know what to do. Use a lot of lube. Oh, and masturbate soon before you have sex, to avoid premature ejaculation...it happens often the first time.

 

she's had sex like 10 plus times, i'm not 100 percent sure this is going to happen she just said 'come to this party on saturday and fuck me'... i hope it's as easy as it looks haha

 

Um, she might have some sort of STD. Do you know her well?
And do you really want to lose your virginity to some girl who tells you to go to a party and fuck her? Why not wait until you actually like someone...

 

im very good friends with her. i know she doesnt have STDs i am also very good friends with the kid throwing the party its like a tradition for me and my friends all to go to his house on saturdays. and i've had a crush on this girl for like 3 months she just use to fuck her ex all the time, she hasn't slept with 10 guys.

 

Oh, I misread your post then. I think it will be alright. Sex is pretty straightforward.

 

yeah i can see why you thought that. well thanks ill keep this in mind.

 

Just go for it man.

 

you're right i'm being a pussy about it.

 

report back!

 

You got this.

 

Be sure to use a condom. If you don't know how to put it on, ask someone.

 

Wow, sex for the first time... I hope you do well, because if you suck at it, you're doomed. Good luck!

 

way to not put pressure on the poor guy.

 

yeah it didn't happen 'were too good of friends'...

 

What a flakey girl you have there.

 

The more you worry the worse you're going to make it for yourself, man.

Just relax, and the more relaxed you are the more relaxed she's gonna be.

Don't let stress / fear rob you of an orgasm - creatures in nature (mammals, insects) have been fucking for years without much difficulty!

Basically, just let nature take care of it, and for the love of God be careful, you don't know how many other guys she's told "I'll be at (insert place here) on (insert date here), please be there at (insert time here) to put your (certain sex organ) into my (other sex organ)."

L_S

 

just relax and act natural, don't set your mind that she will get disapointed to you.

 

so true ^

 

Not sure what to do??? Just stick your penis in her. It's pretty cut and dry.