Female thoughts on being approached for NSA fun?

A question mainly for the ladies, but guys, feel free to give your experiences. I know most situations are different, but how do/would you feel about a guy you know, ( not well ) asking, or mentioning the 2 of you should get it on? The setting Im talking about is a normal daytime situation, not a drunken bar hookup. THAT is where it gets tricky.

A little back story to explain my question,.. There are 2 girls that I see on an almost daily basis. Both in a store they work at. ( different stores) In both cases, we talk often, & seem quite friendly. I have even noticed "that" look, the one where it seems to me she MAY be having some very naughty thoughts. - I have 2 OTHER girl "friends" that said, after they met me, they would have "jumped on" if I would have asked. ( we know each other alot better now, then we did then) I think most women would love a little no-strings fun, but feel like thay would be labeled a slut if they did. I don't think either of these girls are sluts, but I'm very sure they would enjoy an orgasm just as well as anyone else. I'm sure most women know a guy or two that fills this role as a "friend",... not a close friend, more of an aquantence, but still smiles when you see him. etc. So what if he asked you about getting to know each other better? I know every woman id different, but what would you do if "that" guy u see, asked about a little fun? What would your reaction be?

 

I say go for it the worst she can say is no. i would love it if a man or a woman came to me and asked but yes its easier to tell someone to do it than do it yourself lol i have for months been attracted to a woman (i am a woman)(i think she might like women but not positive) and i want her so bad but i am too chicken to take it to the next level and ask her. but til i get up the courage i have my fantasies good luck op

 

Go for it. Just be careful how you ask. I've had NSA with two guys (both friends to various degrees) but questions weren't really involved in either case so I'm afraid I can't say what would have worked on me. Go for the nervous and embarrassed, look-I'm-sorry-if-this-seems-forward approach. Perhaps also say that she didn't have to answer then - think about it. She might be a bit surprised and burst out with "no" when she actually would quite like to. Perhaps tell her not to answer straight away.

Since there are two of them you could try two different approaches and let us know which one works...

 

I'd say yes I find his boldness attractive.

 

If you want NSA fun, you don't really get to pick and choose. You either have to take rejection well or be willing hook up with unattractive people on chat rooms, singles lines, and craigslist.

My buddy is an NSA only kind of guy. He uses a shotgun approach. He cat calls to women while driving down the street and makes all kinds of suggestive comments to women he finds attractive. 98% of womens walk away in disgust, but when they turn around and say "hey baby"...PAY DIRT!!!! He also goes for single mom's with small children because they obviously put out.

 

I would say go for it. The worst they can say is no. And from a girl perspective, most of us LOVE sex, and a fling like that isn't an uncommon fantasy. Go for it!! =)