I am 15 years old. I have been with my girlfriend for a year now. We started having sex within 4 months of being together, i lost my virginity to her and i love her very much. Over the past couple of months i have been become more and more obssesed with having sex and feel the need to have sex with her every time we're together, whether we be out and busy shopping or at the movies etc i still really want sex, or if we're just indoors relaxing in bed i constantly want to touch her and do it. We have sex pretty often as it is ( about 2-4 times a week ), but when she does not want to i can become stressed and frustrated. I also think about sex alot, sometimes at very innapropriate times such as at school , i will just think about having sex and not concentrate on important things i should be doing. I am becoming very concerned and really want to have a healthy sex life without it being a constant need in my life or if i jepordize my relationship and cheat on her. Could i be addicted to sex and if so what can i do about it? Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you
I was always like that but it didn't affect the school/job as long as you can concentrate. It never affected my relationship. I enjoy the feeling to have sex all the time. It would not last forever. You might be normal or get hold over it with time.
Hey Frank Dont worry too much , its your hormones playing with you. At your age yoru body is producing so much testosterone to grow yoru bones etc that it plays with yoru lobido as well .. i remember being 15 right up to 34 i was able to go 3 to 5 times a day ! its curbed a bit now and am happy with 3 to 4 times a week .. Dont cheat on her you will end up feeling worse .. get a magazine and jerk off .. She will respond better if she dosent feel like all you want from her is sex
Sounds like normal, young love/lust. Worry not, it should get more easy to push those thoughts away as you get older.
Thanks all for advice, i did think it was just hormones. I will try and deal with it as best i can for the moment.
Sexual addiction? Who the hell would want to be cured of that? You never know for sure how long any good thing in life is going to last, so make sure that she has the birth control issue under control, and fuck her brains out. Make some memories while you can.
Find something else to get obsessed about like art or music or whatever so you can give her a break and also accomplish something with your life
