A bit disappointed.. first time experimenting with a man

I finally got the balls to make a post at CL to try it with a man. When we were exchanging emails he told me he'll take it easy on me since it's my first time. So he suggest that he'll give me head first and see how I like it because I never touch or been touched by a man before. We finally setup a date and time to make it happen. Me and the wife was very excited and me a bit nervous.

So we drove to his place. My wife stayed in the car waiting for me. I gave him a buzz and finally got to his door and I can feel my heart beating so fast. He opened the door and greeted me. He took my jacket off then asked me if I had a problem looking for his place and I said no. He came closer and started rubbing my dick. He unbuckle my belt and slowly rubbing my dick. He dropped to his knees and swallowed my dick while he's removing my pants and shirt so now I'm totally naked. He gave me head for 3 min. at the door till I get semi hard then he finally asked me to come in and have a sit.

I sat on his couch and his already watching gay porn. He sat right next to me, got undress and we chatted for a bit while his rubbing my dick. He asked me if I want to do the same thing to him. I paused for a second because I'm having thoughts if this is what I really want to do, but I was already turned on of him playing with my dick so I said to myself why not. I grabbed his dick and it was already hard. I rubbed his balls then his dick and finally I have my whole hand on his dick and started jerking him off while he's giving me head.

The feeling of getting head by him was great and jerking him off making it twice the fun. I kinda enjoy jerking him off. Seeing him enjoying it and feeling his pre-cum slowly dripping. While I continue jerking him off and it's making me so horny. I already started imagining giving him head and I was ready to do it and I was just waiting for him to ask me. But after 3 mins of me jerking him off then he came. He squirt 5 times, he came lots. I kept on with what I'm doing, rubbing his cum on his dick and balls till his dry just to keep him hard.

It totally turned me on that he enjoyed what I did to him and I was still in the mood but he can't stay hard anymore so I gave up on trying to keep him hard. He said he was sorry that he came so fast and it usually doesn't happen to him often. He changed position, got up and drop his knee right front of me and said "don't worry I'll make sure you'll come in my mouth and I'll swallow it all" hearing him say "swallow" got me a lil excited so after 15mins I finally came and he did sucked me dry.

I got up went straight to his bathroom to wash my hand and my dick coz my hand is still full of his cum and I left.

Walk back to my car and my wife was asking why so soon. She said she was expecting it might take 1-2 hrs. I told her that he came so fast. I guess he just want to finish me off.

So why I'm saying I was disappointed about my first experience with a man? because I think I'm expecting too much for my first time.

Hopefully my next adventure wont be as disappointing and you guys have a HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

 

Very few people turn out to be genuine sexual athletes when doing it for the first time. Like so many other things in life, sex needs practice, training, experience.

Sex is far less about what a guy does to you, and what you do in turn, to him. It is about how the two of you interact, and negotiate you way around. Whereas, you may never really control the whole play (and it may not be really a good idea to try and do that), you want to see where your playmate is going. If you see the signs that he is about to shoot his load a bit too soon, stop him and slow the play down. Conversely, if you see that the play is rather turning stale, spice it up.

Most people have poor psychic abilities, and cannot really read your mind. Show what you want to do, or at least talk about this before. Not every guy out there knows that you want to suck his dick. If this is what you feel like doing, clearly show your intention. Very feew guys will say "NO"...

Last but not least, I am not suggesting that you should be cheating on your wife. She obviously knew, and agreed with your plans. That's fine. Does she really need to drive you, and wait for you in the car? Isn't the notion of your wife waiting for you to be done and over with your escapade, actually making you feel uncomfortable?

KD

 

You didn't experience anything new by the sounds, everybody has jerked themselves off and had a BJ before, but I think had you gone down on him your response to it all, quick or not, may have been different.

 

It sounds to me like you had a pretty good time. Most sexual encounters with someone you don't know tend to be short. The guy probably thought you'd want it to be short. If you want a marathon, you should ask for that the next time. Find someone who wants that, and is able. He may have wanted it, and been able, if he'd known it's what you wanted he might have warned you he was going to cum and you should slow down the handjob. If you don't tell him what you want, he probably assumes that a married guy, a first timer with his wife out in the car (!!!), was nervous and wanted it over and maybe only wanted a quick release anyhow.

 

you did fine..... you have a wife to support you... maybe next time she can help? Damn I wish my wife would... lol at least she went with you.... thank your blessings...

you're fine practice makes perfect... or at least hot... lol

 

Sounds like a great 1st encounter to me! I'm also really impressed with your wife's encouragement. Maybe you should share her with another bi man.

 

sounds like a great first story man. How cool is it that your wife is wicked awesome. (im new here)

 

anyone else find it a little funny that the wife sat in the car and expected to do so for 1-2 hours?