how long do you wait before having sex?

i've never been one for the waiting thing. i usually am friends with people before dating them so, sex on the first "date" is not unusual for me.

then theres the friends with benefits. that's a whole nother story.

 

depends on the circumstances. if i'm serious about her as someone to have a long future with, then i'm in no rush. in fact, i'd rather wait. maybe a month or two.

but if it's someone i'm just dating for fun, then whenever we do it is fine with me. 1st date, third, whatever.

 

double post

 

If I have a girl friend, I dont wait. If I dont have any, I approximately wait for 3 months. In some cases, even a year!

 

I made my guy wait 6 months but I was only 15 back then.

 

ummm a couple of months normally, I had 2 wait 2months for one guy coz he was a virgin. But I’ve had sex buddies, and the guy I’m with now, we had sex b4 going out, but we knew each other a year b4 as friends.

 

15 minutes....no it depends on the guy and how i feel about him.

 

as long as I think is appropriate for the situation

 

I waited 2 and a half years with my ex and still never got anything sexual. I respect feelings so if that means waiting a lifetime or until we get home, I'll do it.

 

Hmmm...Well, so far, about 18 years

 

Until I'm married?

unless i go back on this and make a total hypocrite of myself

 

I say 3 months of being really close anything shorter risks you opening yourself up and getting hurt.

 

lessee...I had to wait 15 damn years :&

 

well im still a virgin...iv been goin out with my bf for a month and a half. im really nervous about having sex, especially if something happens thats bad and i have to go and talk to my mom, i dont want her to b uset that im so "young", shes big on waiting, she waited 2 years with her bf b4 she had sex with him, she was 18...so i feel bad having sex at 16...id like to wait till 17, but thats all the way in May!!! and then theres my best friend, she lost her virginity after 4 months, and i thought that was too short of a time, yet here i am thinking about it, and it hasnt been 2 months...=( i really dont think im ready, but i feel bad cus my bf has had sex b4, a lot of it from what iv heard with his last gf...and hes impatient...not pushy, though, and i feel bad. i told him in January mayb id b ready. id like to have waited 6 months though, till like march, or april, but w/e...i thought that if i waited 4 months then i wouldnt b a hypocrite with my best friend lol

im just scared of a problem and having to tell my mom...i cant even ask her to b put on the pill...id have to wait aawhile...

i guess its really whenever ur comfortable and whenever its good for U