I went out for lunch and

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Nov 18, 2004.

  1. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    It was pretty good. The place is called South of the Boarder and it's located on Second Street in Williamsburg. The staff is very friendly but I must admit I was a little uncomfortable. When I arrived there wer 4 or 5 Mexican guys that were having lunch. (There were waitresses but none of them were out front so I was the only lady in that part of the building.) They were real nice and they smiled at me. I don't know if it was because they didn't speak English or because they were guys but I felt kind of self-conscious. What do you think?
     
  2. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I think you're uniquely strange in a good way.
     
  3. beautifulhippie2

    beautifulhippie2 TyeDyeChicka!

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    I'm sure it was all good!
     
  4. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    Someone please explain to me what my hang up is because no one will touch this subject with a 10 foot poll. If you tell what my problem is then I can try to fix it.
     
  5. beautifulhippie2

    beautifulhippie2 TyeDyeChicka!

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    Honestly hun I don't really see a problem! I think you will be fine!!!
     
  6. karmagonnagetya

    karmagonnagetya Member

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    aww... were you intimidated?
     
  7. NaykidApe

    NaykidApe Bomb the Ban

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    What makes you think it's a hang up? Everybody's afraid of the unknown. Then again maybe your gut was telling you something that your policically correct conscience doesn't want to cop to.

    Maybe it was "white mans (woman's) guilt"

    Could be anything.

    Some races make me uncomfortable and would even if I were completely unprejugdiced. Even if you're completely unprejugdiced you still have to face the fact that they might not be.
     
  8. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I think it was because they were all guys. I look at guys and if they are cute I have a hard time around them. I don't mind a whole room of people but having a group of guys is just different.
     
  9. Orsino2

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    Williamsburg, VA?
     
  10. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    Yes, I think that's a neat name considering where I live lol.
     
  11. loveflower

    loveflower Senior Member

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    I've never been to South of the Border but it sounds good! I know some people got some food from, there
     
  12. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I think a lot of women hate being gawked at. I think is was more the large number that made you feel uncomftrable as opposed to a racial thing.
     
  13. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I wish more women checked me out. :(
     
  14. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    ...have I really been that discreet? (;
     
  15. Fractual_

    Fractual_ cosmos factory

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    hey you live near me, we should have sex sometime...
     
  16. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    Lynsey, I love you!
     
  17. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    right back at ya babe :) my van morrison marc
     
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