A Little Help Please

no i didn't tell her anything along the lines of me liking her

she never actually said that straight to my face but she like said it so that i'd hear it and still be like not straight up saying it to me. if she says something like that to me again that i'm going to be like "why take initiative in doing something that i don't want to do" something like that

 

Just tell her, I am sorry but I don't feel the same way, I hope you can understand

 

pimpin all over the world, the fancy cars, the women, and the caviar

 

yeah that's probly exactly what i'll say

jen, why's it say banned under your username?

 

haha

 

I put that as a dumb joke, I will change it

 

Whatever you end up doing just make sure that after she knows you are not interested in her you make a valid attempt to remain friends or pretty much regardless things will get awkward.

 

would it be out of line to give her a hug after talking to her? just to say that we're still cool?

 

A hug is something friends do so I wouldn't look at it as out of line at all.

 

I don't think you can do it without hurting the friendship. Imagine you were her, and say what you would want someone to say to you. There is nothing wrong with not liking her, but if I girl said she didn't like you and hung out with you all the time you would think she liked you.

 

Or a nice firm handshake

 

we've never actually hung out outside of the radio station, but we're always hanging out at the radio station cause it's a sick place. i would never say that i don't like her cause i do like her. i just don't feel the same way about her. hell i don't even want to have sex with her, i'm really just not attracted to her at all lol. call me shallow if you want but looks are important and you all know it

i was hoping she'd of givin up a long time. i figured if i just ignored her signals she'd stop. she's very persistent

 

Ive been in that situation many times. Its hard bc its nothing you do its like all in their head. not that they are delusional they just think they are getting signals that they aren't. I highly doubt its anything you've done.

 

So what your saying is, in that sig pic your not totally flirting with me :leaving: