Masturbation Q's

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by does2, Nov 20, 2009.

  1. does2

    does2 Member

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    How often do you do it?

    How old are you?

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?

    How many times have you had sex, how often?

    How many times do you masturbate, how often?

    I got the idea for this thread from Project Comfortability.
    It basically has to do with breaking down the barriers behind these things (masturbation). And being able to talk to your family about it comfortably.

    "Hey mom, I need about 2 minutes alone, go in your room. I need to masturbate."

    "All you need is 2 minutes, Jimmy??!"

    Is that acceptable or is it something that should be hidden? Is age a variable in this? If so, what age? Is it respect? If everyone is comfortable with it, then respect isn't an issue.
     
  2. dastud

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    How often do you do it?
    Maybe twice a week on average

    How old are you?
    69

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    Haven't been caught since I was 16 years old (by my mom).

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    I don't, except with a cyber friend.

    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    Thousands - used to be at least twice a month

    How many times do you masturbate, how often?
    You already asked that
     
  3. dastud

    dastud Member

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    Really, masturbation is no more unnatural than scratching an itch. It shouldn't have to be hidden or not talked about or anything to be ashamed of.
     
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  4. Deisceabal

    Deisceabal Member

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    How often do you do it?
    Couple times a day.

    How old are you?
    19

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    Never been caught, it would be dreadfully embarrassing though.

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    Not too comfortable talking about it with family.

    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    Not as often as I'd like!

    I got the idea for this thread from Project Comfortability.
    It basically has to do with breaking down the barriers behind these things (masturbation). And being able to talk to your family about it comfortably.

    "Hey mom, I need about 2 minutes alone, go in your room. I need to masturbate."

    "All you need is 2 minutes, Jimmy??!"

    Is that acceptable or is it something that should be hidden? Is age a variable in this? If so, what age? Is it respect? If everyone is comfortable with it, then respect isn't an issue.
     
  5. toeringguy

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    How often do you do it? almost every day 4 or 5 times a week

    How old are you? 59
     
  6. mmg

    mmg fish out of water

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    How often do you do it?
    2-3 times a week. Either right after lunch or if I can't sleep then I'll rub one out.

    How old are you?
    20

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    I'd be embarrassed for about a second then I'd be all "take a picture it will last longer, perv.."

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    I'll joke about it with friends and family, not serious talk. I can talk openly about it with girlfriends and I'm curious about my girlfriend's masturbation habits because its rather interesting.

    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    Somewhere between 50-100 times. Like once a week, but probably two to three times in a row.
     
  7. (:Comfortably Numb:)

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    How often do you do it?
    2-3 time a week

    How old are you?
    23

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    I dont like it. Probably go red in the face, then finish. Ive never been "officially" caught. But when i used to wack it in the basement when i lived at home, sometimes i couldnt hear someone coming down the stairs until the basement door would open up. I would panick and turn off the computer monitor haha.

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    Not comfortable talking about it with family. Friends and anyone else, i am 100% open.

    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    Thousands probably?? When i had a girlfriend, everyday or every other day. Now with no GF....i dont want to talk about it.
     
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  9. Ed Duvall

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    How old are you?

    32 years old.

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    It was akward when I got caught. I lied and denied. My mother caught me.

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    I don't talk to family about it. I have a few friends that I talk to about it and love the discussions.

    How many times have you had sex, how often?

    Never had sex. Still a virgin and waiting for marriage. (Yes folks, I am serious. No lie.)

    How many times do you masturbate, how often?
    Five Times a week more or less.


    I hope this information helps.
     
  10. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    How often do you do it?
    2 -3 times a day.

    How old are you?
    49

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    I live alone, but have been caught a few times when mate comes to visit. Have asked if he'd like to join in, but he's either never been interested, or not had the nerve. However, he's always accepted it. Also, when I was living in digs, it was a common thing to walk in on each other while masturbating, and was never a problem, and often used to masturbate together - usually seperately in same room, rather than masturbating each other, but that wasn't unknown either.

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    Totally comfortable. I don't have a problem with masturbation - quite the contrary, in fact. It's not only a natural process, but a healthy one too, both physically & mentally & I believe it should even be encouraged as a group activity.


    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    I can't remember the number of times, but with 5 seperate female partners, frequently with each, and quite a few male partners for one-off sex from online dating sites.

    How many times do you masturbate, how often?
    Surely this is a repeat of the first question - about 2 - 3 times a day.
     
  11. AlexMartin79

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    How often do you do it? I'd say around five times a week or so.

    How old are you? 18.

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you? That'd just be terrible. Unless it was one person, who kinda has. But she had left the room specifically so she could do it too xD

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc? Again, just the one girl.

    How many times have you had sex, how often? Every time the aforementioned girl is over since we first had sex (first for both of us) in September. So, like 5, 6 times or something.
     
  12. sobebella

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    How often do you do it? ((atleast 2-5 a day))

    How old are you? ((17))

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you? ((very paranoid about this >.< i have no idea what id do o_O, not been caught yet))

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc? ((depends, with some people, it comes up daily lol, with others, never at all))

    How many times have you had sex, how often? ((atleast 20+ times, not on a basis any more))

    How many times do you masturbate, how often? ((2-5+ a day, around midnight, it helps me sleep))



    Is that acceptable or is it something that should be hidden? Is age a variable in this? If so, what age? Is it respect? If everyone is comfortable with it, then respect isn't an issue.

    ((i think that the problem is that through the years, it has been passed down to us in base instinct that its not to be talked about and is "dirty" but essential. i think that idea needs to be kicked out and just make sex a non-issue))
     
  13. jnorton47

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    Two to three time a week

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    Good question. I have no idea. Never been caught. LOL

    I have no problem talking about things of a sexual nature with friend or family, however, I will let them bring it up. ;)

    Too many times to count. LOL Lately, about once or twice a week.

    We live in a society that is not comfortable with conversation of a sexual nature. It's too bad, but that is the way it is.
    Is age a variable? I would say from my experience yes.
     
  14. bombmistro

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    How often do you do it?
    3-4 times per day
    How old are you?
    17
    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    i think it would be crazy and if anyone my parents (although i have an 18 year old friend who will be renting the room that shares a wall with me soon so maybe her)
    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    With Friends no problem family not so much
    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    never (being traditional. waiting for the right girl to come along)
     
  15. alexman12

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    How often do you do it?
    0-3 times a day

    How old are you?
    14

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you?
    I make sure I do it in a place where there is virtually no chance of getting caught

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc?
    Family, NO. Friends, I have and I'm totally fine with it

    How many times have you had sex, how often?
    Never
     
  16. Tyler29

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    How often do you do it? 2 a day

    How old are you? 29

    How do you feel about getting caught, what would you do? Who catches you? n/a

    How comfortable are you about talking about it? With friends/family/etc? not at all

    How many times have you had sex, how often? 40-50 times, right now once a week

    How many times do you masturbate, how often? 2 times a day, morning n night
     
  17. PineMan

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    Usually at least once a day - sometimes up to 5 times. On more rare occasions, up to 10.

    50

    I first got caught by my father, when I was 13, who gave me a beating, but as he was generally abusive that wasn't unusual. Since then I have experienced living in digs where everyone would frequently walk in on everyone else & being caught naked or even masturbating was just part of the general scene & nothing thought about it. It was just accepted as part of everyday life.

    Totally comfortable. I don't understand why there should be any of the old world taboos associated with it. After all, this is the 21st century & it's been medically proved that it's physically & mentally beneficial, and that 99% of people do it on a regular basis.

    I've had 7 female partners where I've been in sexual relationships, and I've lost count of the one-off male partners I've had (mainly through online dating, such as Adult Friend Finder / Silver Daddies), which have been purely for sex - not relationships.

    See Q.1.

    I believe that in this day & age parents should be open with their children about sex & masturbation from the start - even before they come anywhere near puberty. As it is schools (in the UK anyway) are introducing the elementary points of sex education to primary school children so that they grow up with the facts, rather than picking up rumours in the playground. Once they actually reach puberty & begin masturbating then they should have reached the point at which parents respect their privacy enough to knock at the door (and wait for a reply) before entering, but it should never be considered that this is because masturbation should be thought of as a shameful secret, but as being as natural & normal a process as having a bowel movement, which is also something usually done in private.
     
  18. RxQueen1369

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    im a girl btw... often? 1-2 x a wk. age?-25, gettn caught?- b embarassing but i hav gottn caught gettn oral right during the bigO and i finished, it was my roomate (male) that caught me so oh well.comfortable talkn?-only w/ close friends/husband, never family, how many times had sex?- haha plenty but im married so.., how often?- @ least every other day,if im lucky :) and it is acceptable but should still be done in private and age is kinda an issue from past experience but whatever makes you happy :)
     
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  19. joan696969

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    Hi!
    I am an autor and interested in writing a book about female masturbation.
    Would appreciate getting replies of women that would take part of my poll.
    Please drop me a line if you would like to help me.
    Here is my e-mail-address: joanabbey@hotmail.de

    Yours, Joan
     
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