Philosophical Question Of Anal Sex (For Men)

This is also highly dependent on culture. Go to Australia, women there are very aggressive like men.

You will find it very common for women to ask men out on dates and pay for everything.

 

Can vouch for this. The thing is, it's not so much the aggressive approach to dating/sex/whatever, more just that you know where you stand. If they're keen or not, they'll tell you...makes life so much simpler.

Lived in NZ for four years...took me a long time to adjust to the women there...they are just alot more stand-off-ish, and you don't quite know if they are up for it, or if you're gonna fuck them right off...

Slightly off-topic, but ya get that...

 

The bottom line is how much money you've spent by the time you get into her butt. If you spent no money, you're either a genius or you're committing rape and forcible sodomy, which in turn means that Bubba in prison will get into your butt for free.

 

I really think you're trying to objectify women. Most of the dates I went on with women, we went dutch, or we alternated. I buy her dinner, when we got to the club she buys me a few drinks or pays for the movie etc... At minimum on our next date she will pay for the meal.

I am a very progressive individual. I believe in equality of the sexes, in certain situations I am more than willing to assist women, things like changing a flat tire or something.

I date women who are successful and have ambition, hence they have their own money, like my wife, who is a registered nurse.

If you are dating women and you gotta pay for EVERYTHING, you are dating the wrong women bro, either that or you're butt ugly. They have a name for women like that, they call them gold diggers.

If I take a woman out on a few dates, and I never see her reaching in her purse to pay for shit, that sends a light off in my head, she wants a sugar daddy, and it's not going to be me.

I do not continue to mull them over with cash because I don't want to send the wrong signals that I'm a sucker or that I'm rich. I don't date casually, I only date women when I am really interested in them, and not just for sex. I also have never had sex with a woman on the first date especially anal, I don't usually date women like that.

It makes me feel like, "how many other dudes have hit this on the first date," and it just grosses me out, I have more respect for myself than that and so should you. You need to find women that are self-sufficient and have self respect, period!

I love anal too bro, so don't take this wrong, but I think you are a little obsessed. Focus on finding the right women for your personality instead of for your dick, I'm not saying sex isn't important, but it doesn't need to be the first thing on your list, if it is, you will find your self dating and endless smorgasbord of skanks that don't want to pay for shit and use you.

 

wow this therad is repulsive...i think you need to worry less about getting laid man, then you might actually get laid by a chick who gives a fuck about you...and hey she just might be into anal too

 

When I lost my job as an insurance agent at Geico my wife who is an RN told me to go back to school to earn my repository therapist degree, and she would take care of ALL the bills! Now thanks to her, I finished school and have a great paying job. As a result we are more financially stable as a couple.

Good luck trying to get a hooker to do that.

Calling a wife a hooker is like calling your parents an ATM machine since they gave you shelter, food, and clothing which all costs a shitload of money.

If you think of women as just sex toys, then yes, it's MUCH cheaper to just pay a hooker than have a companion.

Money can buy sex, but it can't buy love.

 

Perhaps for some people, they are so repulsive to their chosen type of partner that they have no other option to look at it as a financial transaction.

As for marriage (or any type of domestic arrangement), if it isn't on an equal basis, then one of the participants are being taken advantage of (it isn't the one that is talking about how much it has cost them that is being taken advantage of).

It doesn't surprise me that some of the posters fit both those categories.

 

So true.

 

+1

 

Goes both ways, dude. I just walked past a new Lexus and the license plate frame read, "I throw a fit...and I get a Lexus!" Even if she is joking, there is a shred of truth to her message.

 

lube doesn't cost very much...so <250..

 

I 100% agree, there are gold digging bitches out there, both single and married.

But to make a generalized statement that money is what ALL women are after is erroneous. That may be your experience with women, in that case, the common denominator is YOU. You are attracting money grubbing skanks because you are dangling the wrong kind of bait.

No matter what, there will always be altruistic and narcissistic people. It's the balance my friend, welcome to the universe in which we occupy.



No light without a dark. Every light cast a shadow proportionate to itself.

 

Interestingly, I just came across on my homepage this article which lists things one should not do on a first date, and in the "She Said" portion, the first is cheapness. The author is playing down the naked truth, that money does indeed matter, but men cannot deny money's essential role to their ultimate desination (anal sphincter). Reading through the bullshit, we know the author wants to be pampered and treated like a queen, and you know she is speaking on behalf of most women. Let's face it, guys: women love to be spoiled, and spoiling them is the key to anal sex. Don't fight it--just go with it. At least I openly admit it.

 

You also notice in that article the woman says that 98% of the time she splits the bill, just want to make sure you caught that.

When she speaks about cheapness, she's talking about excessive cheapness. Splitting the bill is not being cheap, it's good manners to a woman who has class. She mentioned a guy using a calculator to split the bill, that's a bit much. I would agree, if I was splitting a bill with even a friend and he pulled out the calculator I would even find this off putting.

Yes, excessive cheapness may not land you in the sack. Just ask the waiter to split the check and all should be fine.

I must admit, some guys are just lame, and can't find a woman who is self sufficient and wants to split the bill, obviously you are of this caliber since you are so vehemently arguing your point that you can't find a good woman. I under stand this has been your experience, but you can't speak for us all!

When I proposed to my wife, I admit I got an engagement ring, she immediately asked me to return it, she said I don't need a ring to prove my love to her and that rings are an out dated practice.

We got married in my mom's backyard with some close friends in Hawaii. You have to sift through the pile and find a good catch, when you do, HOLD ON TO HER AND DON'T LET GO!!

Until then, throw those gold digging fish back in to the swamp you got them from.

 

Well I can't answer the poll because I've never had anal sex.

But with vaginal sex it cost me money to get to that point as well.

Because I never did one night stands and went after girls who kept up a " admiral " image.

In other words, $100+ at least.

I guess my first girlfriend was the cheapest since I didn't have a job back then and most of our time spent together was walking through a park or watching tv.

But every girl since then, boy howdy, one girl in particular, my last ex probably cost me $100 a fuck since we went to a lot of events and dinners, and not to say I paid for everything, we split most things but I probably wouldn't have had to spend as much of my own money to spend the time with her that I did, plus gas driving to see her, pickign her up, etc.

 

Just keep adding up the money until you finally do, and let us know how much.

 

You mean ALL the money I've ever spent on every woman period?

It's over....let's just say I could go to the Dominican for a week and throw cautious spending to the wind.