Hi me and my girlfriend were talking about how to turn each other on more and she said to take control more often. Her example was randomly picking her up and start kissing her then pay herbdown. I still don't really get exactly what she means. Any advise or help?
some women get turned on by men who are not afraid to be an alpha male in the bedroom area. thoughout alot of womens lives they have been fed the image of men as more powerful then women, which in the real world is a sexist view, but in the great world of turn ons, it can be almost empowering for a women to be "taken" by a man. loss of control can be amazingly sexy. so as long as you both know what you want and consent and love are of the utmost importance, then what goes on in your bedroom (or anywhere else you like to do... stuff) is not to be judged by anyone else. it BDSM terms, it is the submissive who in a way, has the power, so equality is very much present, but it must be understood that it is only wanted in the sexual way, not in everyday life (in most cases). hope this helps, and have fun!
with my ex-gf. i planned it out so perfect. i made little rips/tears in her shirt and pants and we went out to dinner and then came back to her room. i pushed her up against the bed and with one fell swipe i tore her clothes off. i guess you wouldnt have to make rips if you were pretty strong, but it helps. anyway, if that doesn't work that dont work you can slam her up against a wall and then kiss her. just make sure your hand is behind her head or shell get hurt.
women who are envious of a man because they have a penis? i am not sure to be honest, i am sadly not a sex therapist. i think you would have to ask a women who actually has a touch of penis envy herself. good luck!
once my i was sitting on my bf's bed and we were just talking. then he grabbed me, ripped both our clothes off and fucked me. it was awesome! women like spontaneity, and we also like it when our man can't help himself. so next time you have a hard on, just go for it
wah hahahaha i once cut off all my girls clothes while she was sleeping---she showed that shit off to all her friends---didnt wake her till we were doing it---she got a super turn on to that shit----in other words be creative
excellent thinking! i leave scarves lying next to the bed for blindfolding fun and i have a "kink draw" full of S/M delights. xxx
^ luckies <3 I try to get my boyfriend to take control sometimes, but that hasn't happened in a while
We bolted eye loops at all the corners of the bed, and the sides it cost like $10 and it works a treat.
