do you believe in real love?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by greenpeople, Nov 16, 2004.

  1. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I agree completley there's a core set of morals the other person must posses-decent, kind, loving , responsible but for the smaller things I certainly don't want someone like me.
     
  2. deram_scholzara

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    I believe that true, unconditional love does indeed exist. People can't be owned, but they can be devoted of their own will. The trick to such a true love is to find a person who you not only hope, but trust not to leave you for another. Is it possible to find such a person? I know it is. Is it possible to find that person even while maintaining sexual abstinence? I certainly hope so...'cause if shallow chemistry-based sex is good, just imagine what it's like with true love. Imagine what it's like to know that somebody actually wants to wake up beside you every morning. And a lot of people would say that we should experiment around with different sexual partners, but I think that we should experiment more with personalities...and if you fall in love with that and the sex is bad, then there's plenty of time to practice. I mean...it's a little lame to just send someone off into the world without being allowed to test his/her ability to improve.

    My favorite example of true love is What Dreams May Come...the movie or the book...both are good in their own ways. Just the idea that a person would go to hell and risk losing the existence of his/her very soul simply to spend one last moment with the person he/she loves the most...it's beautiful to me...and I hope that a true love comparable to this fictional one really exists. Without such a thing, the universe would seem like such a bland and eternally meaningless place...true love should give us all something to live for...no matter how we go about finding it.
     
  3. sweet_mama

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    I am madly in love with my husband, and he feels the same about me. I would die for him without thinking twice, and he would do that for me. I could never love another man the way that I love him, and I will spend the rest of my life with him. Yes, this love has had and will have it's share of pain, but even those moments will never take away the purity of the love that we have shared for the past 4 years. So that's my take on the matter. And yes, it is absolutely unconditional.
     
  4. novarys

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    I believe in true love but with love does come pain. it's how the cookie crumbles. you learn from it and move on. the pain makes you stronger and if you're still in love with eachother then it makes your relationship stronger. just my opinion.
    but anyway to answer your question yes i believe in true love.
     
  5. maryjaneguitargurl

    maryjaneguitargurl I am just like you.

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    I dont know. YET

    peace
    chickens
     
  6. Applespark

    Applespark Ingredients:*Sugar*

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  7. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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  8. thaone0715

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    it's rare
     
  9. Applespark

    Applespark Ingredients:*Sugar*

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    i believe in real love but I think somekind of pain is needed in order to be in real love. Not the kind of pain yuou get hurt..the kind of pain you learn from and grow from. My son was real love. The moment he was born I was elated. more then ever before. Of corse I had to go through some pain to get there...but it was over fast. love you feel should override your pain.
     
  10. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    I don't know if it's really possible for everybody, but i'm sure it does exist...
    however, i have yet to experience love without pain.
     
  11. ASPePeX

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    Aye exactly the same here ... but I'm the guy in the story and I fucked up ...


    Now Playing: Type O Negative - Black No.1
     
  12. girl81_uk

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    i believe in chocolate. The rest takes care of itself!
     
  13. deram_scholzara

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    I thnk that, in time, it's possible for anybody who looks for it, but not everybody does. Just don't look too hard, because you could end up in love with the first person who claims to love you back while they may just want to get some. But that's all that matters to some people...just have sex and leave the rest alone. I always fest that was the easy way though...there are so many people in this world that it's not hard at all to get a few fuck buddies, and it's as near to painless as one can get. When you find love, you will know it because you WILL suffer...it's just like anything else in life...it could never be as good without some bad to compare it to. Just don't sacrifice your freedom for love...because true love is onlly true when it's free.
     
  14. MattInVegas

    MattInVegas John Denver Mega-Fan

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    Love is even possible when you AREN'T looking. Sometimes the right person just drops into your lap.
     
  15. willpower

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    dude its simple... if it doesnt hurt it isnt love....
     
  16. TARABELLE

    TARABELLE on the road less traveled

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    If you never have conflict, someone involved isn't alive. There's no way two people can be together and not have conflict at times. Any two people. But, hey, love conquers all, right?
     
  17. homebudz

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    I have found true love only once in my life.It turned out to be extremly painfull,but one never knows when it's going to hit you,if it does at all.Was it worth it? I still don't know.
     
  18. deram_scholzara

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    "Nah...I'm not teasing...I'm just not sure I love you." -The Male Half of the Tease of the Century
     
  19. hip_peace

    hip_peace Senior Member

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  20. BrokenHunny

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    Yes, I love being in love
     

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