Well basically as the title states I am liked by nobody in my town, and i dont know why. I didn't do anything to deserve it but nobody wants to hang out with me unless i have drugs or know of a party and about six months ago i stopped letting people smoke all my weed, right after which those people left my life. So i have no friends i just work and in my free time sit at my house smoke weed and drink beer, listen to music watch tv and play video games and its starting to get to me. Does anybody else feel like i do?
dude all the 'friends' u just described, i think just about everyone on here knows 50 people who are scumbags and leech on nice kids like you(and many on HF) who share weed and are good company. im ur age and have met countless kids like that and its sad there's a lot of em..maybe even a whole town full lol...meet new people and act like you don't give a fuck what they think(not in a mean way, just have confidence).
It takes a while to find people that you fit in with, I spent most of secondary school with complete faggot cunts...Although I was a bit of an annoying prick then Anyway you just have to say fuck it really and just go out somewhere - raves are the best place, a pub or club would do the trick aswell though. Your going to be talking to strangers so who gives a fuck what they think of you, just relax and be yourself. If you end up talking to dickheads then..well they're strangers so who gives a shit? Eventually you'll just meet some people that you get along with and voila its not that hard...just get the motivation to stop pissing about on here and go out..pretty simple schematics
Those "friends" don't really sound like friends at all. There are tons of people around! Get out and go talk to some people
Well first off meeting new people is hard when you live in a town with 4,000 people, but im going to college here soon so i guess i'll meet a bunch of new people and all my real friends are there too.
Same number in my town and its not a bother I mean theres got to be about 20 pubs there. Just go into any of them at the weekend and theres gauranteed to be loads of people, specially if its a college town.
Goin to college there ya go that's your outlet to connections, I just moved here about two mo. ago and so far I know my aunt, my cousins and a few of their friends, and some seem shady, some are shady, some are alright I guess but it's hard to stay great friends with my cousin cuz he's into meth and thats def. not my d o c so I usually just hang with him when he's comin down or not spun to where he rambles on meanlingless shit, which makes him a pain in the ass sometimes. However he hooks me up on some pharms and some green so. My aunts crazy obv. anyone who has read other thread knows that, and the ppl she hangs around seem to be pretty shady mofo's so I try to not hang out with her as much, but my cousin her daughter is 18 and she's got some pretty hot friends that don't seem to be corrupted much.....Guess someones gotta do it
i think thats just something a lot of us have to learn the hard way. especially if drugs are a part of your lifestyle; those people are always going to be looking for you. just try to figure out what activities you enjoy will have a bunch of like-minded people you can mingle with and make some real friends. try a music festival if you've never been to one... you'll find more real people there than you can wrap your head around. easily one of the best enviroments to meet down to earth, caring and honest people. it'll pass man. id say burn one and try to sit down and think about that and figure something out. it will pass. :sifone: happy thanksgiving!
i can relate, used to know people like that who would just hang around for freebies. i agree with what some other people suggested here... go out and look for like-minded individuals who may be into the same things you are. spark conversation with people. a music fest is a great place to find people, like said above. try not to let it get ya down.. i'm kind of a loner myself at times and ya just gotta appreciate the good company you can be to yourself :cheers2: hope you find some real chill buds soon
