i know this seems like it should go in the birth control section but it shouldn't really. alright here's the problem, my girlfriend plans on moving onto the pill (we use condoms atm and they've got a little frustrating now) and today for the first time i tried inserting my penis without a condom, she was very wet but i'd just washed and dried my penis to make sure there was no pre-cum (we're aware it was still probably a stupid thing to do and will get a morning after pill, silly us), but anyways- some background first although i'm not sure if it's related i have quite a big penis, i don't want to boast but i have to use large condoms as it's pretty thick and long, and we've had sex many times (31, in fact) and everything's been fine. but today when i put my penis into her-despite her being very wet- i found it extremely hard to push in without a lot of pain, first around the head (as it was being slightly pulled apart) and then where my foreskin was 'rolled' to or w/e you call it (it was pulled back anyways). I'm assuming this problem is here because condoms are lubed and my dick isn't, but i'm unsure now as to what it'll be like when she moves to the pill as obviously we can't have sex if it hurts that much for me trying to push my dick in. tl;dr - it fucking hurts when i put my dick inside my girlfriend thanks for reading and i srsly hope someone can help!x
Penetration without a condom is easier than with one. However, you should only move to using the Pill instead of condoms if you are both 100% certain of being safe from any STDs.
we're each others' firsts. no history of STDs either, we're clean it was weird though felt like she was too tight for it when there was no condom. confused me is all.
Slap some lube on that thing. I don't really think you need a morning after pill; Yeah, yeah. there's all that shit about "OMGZ YOU CAN TOTALLY GET PREGNANT FROM PRECUM@@!1!1one!11" But uh. If you rinsed yr dick off, you're MORE than fine. I've been off the pill for a year now and I haven't gotten pregnant. *shrug* You just gotta time that shit. You shouldn't be bustin' nuts in yr bitch if she's been off her period for more than a week. I usually figure, between day 12 and 16 it'd be wise for me to use a condom. But regardless of all that. Birth control is AWESOME. Soon as I'm financially able to, I'm so getting back on that shit. Made periods a BREEZE. [postscript] You count the times you have sex?! AHAHAHAHAHAH.
That's a given. Lots of lubes that look just like precum, or even thicker if you want. I saw that too. But then I remembe he's 15. The first 31 times he's had sex and they are likely all memorable. It may be a guy thing. I used to count pubic hairs when they were in the tens. Gave up after they got close to the first hundred.
the counting the number of times thing is just like remembering a special date you had. and i don't get why we'd have to use lube, i don't see why it doesn't just go in like it does with a condom on. it just pulls back the skin really hard and hurts, i think after it's in it's fine but insertion hurting isn't too good eh?
Because condoms have lube on 'em. Just trust me, dude. That, or dome the broad for a good long while so she's soggy and shit. If yr foreskin hurts when you get it pulled back, you probably have to stretch it out. I'm not too knowledgeable on that business, but there's dozens of other dudes in here that'll give you a play by play.
u count the times u had sex???????? i tried doin that i think i got to a lil over a hundred before i figured it was useless to count lol ill just stick to counting sex partners now lol its alot easier
