Hello all So basically, for the past few months i've started to become sexually active. And being new to it a few question have raised, mainly about the foreskin and the knob. I've always had a foreskin entirely cover my knob, it's only now having sex that i'm finding my foreskin is 'peeling' back and exposing my knob. And unfortunately i find this sensation rather painful, and even worse distracts me from the pleasure of sex and quickly takes away my erection. Even as much as touching it lightly with my finger gives the weird/painful feeling. Will my knob desensitise over time or will it stay the same. Do all males experience this or am i a special case? Ahh, this one shows my inexperience, are vaginas designed to peel the foreskin back? Why is it painful when my foreskin is streched? Helpful responses only please ! Thanks! Peace.
you will get used to it - my guess would be you didnt to enough ..."self exploring" to get used to it bevore sex. well, dont panic, it will change. and yes, vaginas are "designed" to uncover the head of your penis. trust me, when it comes to sex, there is nothing, really absolutely nothing that hasent already happened to many others out there. just keep practising and things will settle themselves.
It's possible that your foreskin is too tight. The best course of action is to consult your GP to see if you require any form of treatment. Treatment may comprise of full circumcision, or partial circumcision, where only the philtrum (the flap of skin on the underside of the glans) may be snipped slightly. Alternatively a steroidal cream to stretch the skin may suffice. These forums are all very well & good for sharing personal experiences, but there is no replacement for individual professional advice.
uh well, maybe i understood your problem wrong: is the feeling of your exposed penis tip just hyper-sensitive? or does the act of moving your foreskin back cause you pain? if it is the 2nd, maybe contact an urologist.
In addition You can try this - if it help: take a ointment - (preferably with E-vitamine and hyaluron acid) and after insert Your forefingers inside the foreskin and pull it forward and aside for a minute or two repeatedly in a day. It help only for a small problem - for tighter its necessary see your urologist. Maybe You have a short frenum - I recommend to cut, I have it and I am satisfied.
from what i am told, fully arousing your partner, thus making her wet will decrease your friction & will help with your sensitivity issues of your glans penis (aka: the knob)
Hey everybody Thanks a lot for the replys, Greatly appreciated! So just to clarify, when i'm flacid, pulling the foreskin back all the way does not hurt, but when i become erect the feeling of tightness is very noticable. And the head of my penis when exposed is very sensitive. I think i'll leave everything for now to see if it 'adjusts' over time and with more sex (fingers crossed lol). I dont want to get any treatments for something that can fix itself. But in saying that i'll consult my doctor and explain some things anyway. Once again, thanks for the helpful responses everyone! cheers! peace
I have a similar condition, although from slightly different cause. Some years ago I had an accident on my bike, where there front wheel got turned 90 degrees to the right, causing the bike to come to a sead halt, whereas I didn't. I went straight forward smashing myself against the handlerbar stem. When I got home I discovered the collision had caused a tear straight through the foreskin, which needed stitching. The problem is that every now & then the scar opens up slightly, which results in additional scar tissue being generated each time this happens, which gradually causes an increasing tightening of the foreskin, as scar tissue doesn't stretch. As you can imagine, this is slowly causing the foreskin to tighten, and may eventually require some degree of circumcision. Until then I'm making do with the steroidal cream I've been prescribed. Even though my foreskin is not in perfect condition, it's something that nature has provided me with to keep my glans moist & extra sensitive, and I'd like to keep it & appreciate its advantages for as long as possible.
I would never circumcised my baby boy. I think it is wrong plus I would like him to have the experience of a whole intact penis . He also can decide to do it later but I think its wrong to do it to infants when they have no choice whether they want to have it done or not.
I happen to have a very loose foreskin so I can't relate to this at all. However, I don't think pulling the foreskin should hurt. If that keeps being this way I think you should consult a doctor. There might be something like a mild operation you could do to make it a little more loose just so it doesn't hurt. I was also wondering, didn't you have this issue before, that is, during masturbation? Or you've never masturbated?
Some of us went thru this at 7 or 8 when we noticed it was fun to play with the little guy. I used to sit in the bathtub and pull the skin back a little extra once a week. I'll never forget the evening when I yanked it all the way back. Couple a years later, I was all ready for wanking. Still later (age 17) came sex. Another good reason for masturbation in tnhe early teens!
Just have a wank, and i'm not even taking the piss :rofl: Ok, I was with the second bit. But seriously, masturbate, get the little soldier ready for battle.
I just pulled back my foreskin for the first time, and it is sore. One of my friends helped me, and he said, that when he did it the first time it hurt for some time. But I think that you just have to keep trying to touch it for some time every day, and then you will get used to it, and it will feel tickling instead
