So I have only had one true relationship in my life, I was with him for three months. I am still young and am a first year in college, 18. I never really was into the whole dating scene. I have a tendency to sleep with guys and never see them again. I was ok with it until this weekend. I went to a party on friday and a boy from my class was there, we went back to his place. I slept with him. We talked about hanging out but it never happened. I have never been truly attached to any guy I have slept with, but this guy is different. But I think I messed it up by sleeping with him the first night we hung out, outside of class. Is this fixable? I don't want it to be awkward in class. I fall head over heels for guys too early, how do I not do this?
girl you need to stop sleeping with guys right off the bat. have a little respect for yourself. no wonder you haven't had many relationships...because guys who jump into bed with you immediately aren't looking for a relationship - they're looking to get laid. i think your situation is fixable. ask this guy out for dinner or to a play or something, try to get to know him, AND DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM AGAIN until you have. he might not be interested in having a relationship, but it's worth a try. and don't let yourself fall head over heels immediately - that's a sure way to scare a guy off. keep things light and casual until you know him better. good luck!
