Okay, I guess I'm gay.

I think two guys on each other is definitely very sexy, I would love that in a threesome.... I get very turned on by that stuff, but thats just me

 

Wow. Did you masterbate to his first post?

 

I find myself kind of in teh same situation. I want a relationship with my roomate but he isn't really gay (imo he doesn't want to admit it). I just chat with him a lot and enjoy being in his company and that is all I could really ask for. I always feel really comfortable with him. Sure sometimes I overthink things because I like him but that doesn't stop the good times from happening. I also don't really let myself fall for him as it could all go wrong at the end, but I will never let go of my fantasy.

 

I would just love to find a guy who wants something other than fucking! I love men, no mistaking it, but I just cannot seem to find anyone who is anything but aloof. I will suck a guy and enjoy it all right, if he is willing, that's not the problem, just no one seems to even want to be friends, really. Once they dump their load, they're gone. I've only sucked 2 guys now, and I meet another this Tuesday.......I just can't wait to be with and by another guy. I really like being with men. It's not that I dislike women. I don't at all. I just really love being close to a man irregardless of whether he's old, black, whatever. Just love men! I will fill you in on the details of my next meet up, if you guys and gals are interested, and it sounds as though you might be! In the mean time, I'll check the personals here and on craigslist again. I'm always hopeful! If any of you guys are looking, check out my personals ad here. My picture is coming soon!

 

Have you ever told him how you feel? I mean honestly? Do you live near Spokane Washington? (kidding!) Sounds like it could be such a beautiful relationship! You sound like a wonderful guy!

 

Must agree with MW here!

We all get worked up over sex, men, love, our (possibly common) future, etc., etc.

Guys, take a very deep breath. Take a break, too.

And take it one step at a time.

Go out, meet up with dudes for some fun. If you see that there is little coming your way, because you are at the wrong end of the woods; start exploring the possibility of your own little exodus. You have only got one life to live, so do not waste it.

Buddy-up with a guy or two with whom you have a sense of mutual chemistry or the good vibe going on. Watch him and watch yourself. Learn how you react to them, and how they react to you:cheers2:. See what makes them tick, and what makes you tick... Do ALL the footwork there is.

Open your mind, and go out there and meet up other dudes. Drop the "I am looking for a long-term relationship mantra." Relationships are made, not found. Say, "All my options are open. I am free, I know how to take care of my shit."

Do not rush in where even the angels fear to tread. Take your time. Date, work together, have fun together, spend time together, help each other out, if help is needed, and when it all works out fine, start plotting a strategy of living together in a relationship... Not before

KD

 

I guess my main compaint is that the guys I've been with were into gratification only. Good looking guys, but I just can't seem to find another guy who isn't a disguisting pervert, only looking to screw. I would just love to find a guy that is earthy in a granola, goaty sort of way. Something that I could even hang a friendship off of! Seems like gays are only interested in sex and that's it. Isn't there anyone who's interested in even a friendship, that maybe an intimate relationship could grow out of? Or is it just me? When you look at lesbian ads in the personals, they seem to be looking for something a bit substantial, whereas guys whom are gay, just want to bang and go...... It's fun no doubt, but disheartening.

 

I told him I like him, but he just smiles and looks away. He tells me I'm very good looking, smart, that he likes my personality, and a bunch of compliments. He invites me to the movies and to eat. I feel like he wants me to make a move on him but I don't dare because he's always talking about how he's banging this chick and how he likes being relationship-free, he confuses me. I just enjoy his company and not worry too much about it. If it happens it happens, if not, who cares because he's fucking awesome to be around.

Sorry, I live in California.

 

i think this is the problem. you're not gonna find guys like that from the personals. i think you have more chances with gay bars.
you could find out where the gay crowd hangs out in your area and start going to the places (nightclubs/restaurants/etc) they go to to find guys who might be interested in something a bit more permanent.
do you have any friends that are gay or know anybody at all who is gay?

other than that, and a more random option, is to keep your eyes open at work? school? depends on what kind of work (?) you do, it might be a good way to meet guys. or you might start going to the gym, or anywhere where you can maximize your options of meeting other guys. this isn't how it works with just gays, straight ppl go through the same inane process of dating and what not, for the purpose of meeting a potential bf/gf.

if you asked me, it's all pretty artificial and made up, but ppl do it. a more natural way is to just let go and enjoy life w/o trying to force results and rush things. that's my opinion.

anyway, you can't predict when and how you're gonna meet somebody. it might be when you least expect it, as it is. it's life.

 

So far, no matter! I got to suck on a guy for lunch today. Owns a business, he's straight. He locks the door behind me and presents this nice bulge in his pants. I grabbed and fondled that bulge as his eyes rolled up to the ceiling. He quickly unzipped his pants and pulled them down a bit. I started to pull his pants back and started kissing his balls and dick through his underwearwhile reaching in through the leg holes of his briefs. Gosh I love briefs! Pulled those down as he lit a smoke, and proceeded to rub his balls with one hand while stroking his beautiful penus with my other hand all the while kissing his dick all over and tonguing his purple head. He asked me if I wanted some cum? and I quickly said yes, and immediatly began bobbing on his cock as fast and as deep as I could, while still rubbing his balls with the right hand and pulling on the skin at the base of his throbbing dick with my left! He moans and I start to rub his dick base intensly and with a great deal of affection as he grabs my head and hold me still as I sit there totally around his cock with my mouth, and taste the unmistakable tangy taste of cum. I work out every drop and continue kissing his pretty head and going down on his dick slowly. I didn't even get off this time, but gotta tell you, no doubt about it. I'm fucking gay and proud of it. I will no longer be ashamed of being gay or liking penus.

 

Sorry. I hope I didn't gross anyone out! I thought it was a beautiful experience that I can't wait to do tomorrow with guy 5! Thanks for listening everyone. I'll get this out of my system eventually, and come back to earth and maybe my senses!

 

Really?

 

Heh, it was pretty fucking hot tbh, you got me a little hard. XD

 

Really? That's cool. It was hot! I can't get it out of my mind! I just always feel like I might offend someone here. I respect everyone on this forum and would love to feel welcome as a recently discovered gay guy! That's all!

 

absolutely.

keep it coming=)

 

Got stood up today guys! Sorry. Im meeting another guy Friday though and he sounds like he's pretty committed to me sucking his big ol' dick, as he puts it! I'll give you the details!

 

Hey mate, thanks for your posts on my thread Wow your "case studies" are intense lmao. I hear what you're sayin - I would love nothin more than to end up kissin a guy I'd slowly got to know and was into over a good couple of months - but I think thats my problem - unlike you I couldn't just hook up with someone I didn't know (I'm totally not sayin that's wrong or anything, its just me - I'm really cautious and analyse just about absolutely every decision I make lol) yet I wouldn't ever approach guys and I've never stepped foot in a gay bar... :-S

I was tellin you about that mate of mine I was into on the other thread - we would come back from nights out sometimes and lie down on a bed or sofa together and just pass out. And I'd be lyin there, my head on his chest movin up and down with every breath... And all I'd wanna do is kiss him. And its so friggin hard (no pun intended ;-D). I'm holdin out on anything sexual until I find someone I really really like - is that pretty naive to think that that might ever happen? Ya can only hope eh?

 

why didn't you?

 

Cos I'm really cautious and analyse every decision before I make it lol. It was a good job too cos a few weeks later he went off on a totally homophobic rant...