I'm a straight girl, but I want to experiment a little. I'm looking for a girl to have sex with while my bf watches or while he fucks me at the same time. He doesn't want to be involved with the other girl he just wants to watch. So ladies, how do I pick up another girl?
well first off do you have any bisexual friends that you would be interested in asking to join the two of you? if not there are many places to look...personal ads...bars...coffee houses. you can find a third party just about anywhere if you can pick up on the vibes from other people...just keep your eyes open and good luck
well, I'm not comfortable having sex with a girl that I'm close with, but I don't I happen to have any friend who aren't straight anyway. I'm not really into the bar/club scene so I wouldn't be able to meet anyone there. My main problem is I don't know what vibes to be looking for and I don't want to offend anyone by coming on to them. I'm afraid I don't know the right way to do it. What happens if the girl is totally disgusted by my proposal and offended that I even approached her? Chances are I'm going to try to hook up with someone I'm acquainted with, but not actually close to, like someone from a large class or work. I don't even know if that is a good idea. I really have no idea where to start.
Leave the house. Seriously. My one lesbian friend gets WAY more girls than all of my guy friends combined.
Bi and Lez women are so lucky. Now, I know there are lots of bi women out there that are looking for a fem friend with benefits. Many of the women, especially those that don't go to socail places often, complain about how hard it is to find a booty buddy. I do recommend coffee shops, especially independently owned coffee houses. The women there are less traditional, and almost always not conservative, even if they are not bi or lez.
maybe at the gym? you can safely give or receive complimenst and see where it goes. i don't know how daring you are. let a hottie see you naked in the locker room? i dunno.
I'm sort in the same boat although I've been in one short relationship with a woman before (found via her husband through craigslist, evil craigslist). I am kind of shy about talking to girls in a sexual kind of way unless they're putting off an attitude of openness and just pure, unadulterated sex appeal. My bf suggested to me that I just start telling girls when I think they're cute, to think like a guy, and "holla" at the fine girls that pass by or that you meet when you go out. I don't do this enough, because I always feel too nervous, but maybe you ought to give it a try. I think most girls don't compliment strangers, its just not something we're often trained to do. But maybe it'll at least get you a smile and a little conversation.
yeah Id love to know the answer to this too, not to where, but how? My bf would love a threesome.... and me too
a guy you try to hit on could have the same reaction. dont think everything has to be different with a chick. just flirt the same way you would with a guy. also, bars are awesome places to pick up chicks. girls in their early 20s tend to turn bi-whore after a few drinks
