man turn down woman for sex

I chased after this hot woman for over a year. Our first time together in the sack, she springs it on me that she's a virgin. I did a gentle job of popping her cherry, but our sex life went downhill after that. She just laid as still as a cadaver while we were having sex. I felt like I was fucking a body down at the county morgue. It got to the point where I couldn't shoot my load whenever we fucked. I finally blew her off everytime she wanted to fuck. I told her the problem, but she just didn't "get it." Literally and figuratively.

 

I have, sort of. It's a long story.

 

i turned down a hot girl at a party once. She was VERY drunk, and I wasn't even getting there. I talked to her about it the next day and she thanked me for not doing it.

 

I don't blame your boyfriend, but if looks were all that mattered, you'd be a keeper, and I'd have done the same... if I had enough self control that day.

 

Back off of stimulating him so much during foreplay. He may expect getting head, or for you to stroke him, but do it less, and then rub other erogenous zones until your box is super hot and ready!

 

12 days, that's it? You women are so fuckin' LUCKY! Ok, it hasn't been long for me because I'm confident once again, but I went 2 years without sex twice in my life. My self esteem was so hurt by not being able to be with the woman that I loved. I'm cute, but I'm also shorter than average, and not affluent. Women pass on me, if I look at women as a whole, but at least one out of three find me hot. I have to remember that.

I was confident last Saturday night, and a chick took my shirt off on the dance floor. I never had to say a word. My game was all silent and body language. I am fit, so that helped.

Anyway, I turned down this one chick 3 times in one month. I had a one-night-stand with her, and it was not that good. Her pussy was shorter on the bottom side, and easy to slip out of it on the out-stroke. Also, she was so insecure all the time, and always drinking. I was turned off by her insecurity, and she would treat me like a 14 year old boy by grabbing my hand and putting it on her tits, or her pussy, even after I pulled it away, like as if that would make me happy. That was a BIG turn off! She was attractive, but not my time. She looked a little high class, and I prefer casual women, or hippie chicks. She had a masters degree, and was working towards a doctorate, but was still so insecure, that it turned me off.

I'm sure me turning her down did not help her insecurity issues one bit.

It actually made me feel good about myself too. After all the turning down women do, they deserve a bit of their own medicine! Ok, I'm jaded, but I can show that on these forums if I want to! This is a place to be honest.

 

Let me guess, she thought that if someone is good looking that's all that matters and she was crtitical of women that are not as pretty as her.

A "6" who is really into sex will always trump a frigid "10."

 

Well put, Vegasman. Good food for thought.

 

Yeah, I do get turned down by my boyfriend sometimes but usually only if his skin is bad since he suffers with bad eczema. I've never turned him down though.

 

I have turned down sex, I was going out with a girl that was not a little right in the head. She was moving too fast.
I was just getting started with college. Plus the risk of getting her pregnant and being liable.

(I broke it off with her too)