Fellas....How IMPORTANT is it to you for your Lover to Cum?

If she hasn't cum @ all after many times of having sex with you, would you feel inadequate or any less of a lover?

Or do you actually understand that alot of females usually don't have orgasms from intercourse alone?

And sometimes it's not even really what YOU are doing wrong, but how happy/comfortable she feels about herself, etc...

 

I make sure my mrs orgasms at least twice (once via oral, as I LOVE to eat pussy) and once/twice or more via intercourse.

My partner has had a few partners in the past, and she said I've been the first one to make sure she cums. I also got her to squirt (dribble so far) and a 'all over' body orgasm where she wanted to roll over and go to sleep

I guess it's something you do for the person you love.

 

If she didn't cum, its her fault.. I got mine




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my partner wont stop until i\ve come at least twice, he's such a gentlemen

 

Well what are your techniques to make a girl cum?

 

Well the first thing is to make her feel really comfortable as possible in the bedroom. Second is both to have an open mind and perhaps read up on it some (Askmen.com is a good start)

For me and my past 3 relationships and got them to squirt, was to start off weeing on me, as getting a woman to squirt is to get her past the feeling of wanting to wee, if she is comfortable weeing on you then there is a better chance of her squirting.

I use two fingers to play with the G-Spot (front wall of the vagina) with the 'come here' finger action and sometimes pushing on the stomach above the pelvic bone (feeling both fingers inside and out touch) and if you can lick her clit while doing all that. I remember the first time my current mrs came all over my face, it was AWESOME I tried to drink as much as I could and she was SO amazed she did it and that I wanted to drink it (well she drinks mine) and she had perhaps 3 to 5 orgasms and before we could have sex she wanted to roll over and go to sleep and said it was the best orgasm she ever had and could feel it all over her body.

Oh and be careful, she will have the BEST EVER orgasm of her life and may fall in love with you :cheers2: But this is what I wanted so I was okay

And by the way, I am 38, my ex's were 20 (I was 29) 41 I was 36 and 35 (current partner) and I am 38 and they never had a orgasm like this or squirted, they really need to be open and WANT to do it.

PM me if you want more info

 

If I don't make her orgasm, I'll feel like a failure.

 

Maybe i'm selfish but i love the feeling of a women orgasming on my shlong, nothing beats that constricting vagina clasping your cock.

 

I'm pretty sure you meant to say "gentleman"..amirite

 

Depends on the girl some need more than penetration alone, so find out what your partner likes, this is best through experimentation and communication b/c being open about it is alot better than taking offence and not doing anything to change it. If you really dig your girl and your not making her cum atleast once during sex you need to do something different. I usually don't stop until my lover has came 3 to 4 times, unless it's just a quickie so I'm more than a gentleman .

 

it's been a long time since I haven't been able to get a guy off and the last time was due to him being so high/drunk he couldn't.

but yes, if I was incapable of getting someone off due to my lack of skill or his lack of interest or whatever reason, i would be upset and probably move one.

plus, I love cum :/

 

are you a girl or a guy??

 

i am a dude

 

As a submissive male, my lovers orgasm is the centre of our lovemaking. She likes to lie back and read erotica for long periods, while i caress and tongue her slowly to orgasm. I find this deeply fulfilling

 

If I do, I would want my partner to. Simple as that. If she can't get off from penetration, then I think of it has me having to do more to completely satisfy my partner. I would think she would enjoy it as much as I do. I love making my partners cum..

 

I make sure that my lady cums multiple times before the night is over.. or before the day begins...

 

i've gotta make her cum at least once before i get going

 

i would have a bad feeling but try not to tell her.

 

i think its her right to get orgasm by u .if i get my orgasm and she is not , then ill play with her sexualy till she gets to orgasm .

 

I always aim to make her come. It is very important to me. And if she comes easily, I tend to work on her till she is completely done, which has been upwards of about 5 orgasms on some women. The ones that collapse totally have been squirters. My ex actually made me stop for a few minutes because she said everything was going dark and i watched her tremble for a good 5 minues until she said "ok, yea I am for sure done" This was after she had soaked through my comforter and sheets. She had enough strength to finish me off though, which was just amazing. But when I'm with a woman, her coming is always my top priority.