Am I just a worry wart?

I see my boyfriend two days a week due to living an hour away, work schedules, and school schedules.
I absolutely think sex is important in a relationship. I mean it's not the essence of it, but it plays a decent size role. I just realized I won't see him for another week, and we haven't had sex in two weeks. This week we were at his parents, but that hasn't usually stopped us from going all the way, and last week we were at my place one day and his parents the next (he doesn't live there we were just visiting), Sunday rolled around and NOTHING!
I don't really know what to think about this. I would think that a guy who sees his girlfriend that much would take the opportunity to fuck his girlfriend like crazy.

Am I looking too deep into this or should I have my guard up? We've been dating for about two years with no problems. I just hate this because I get so horny during the week and then when I see him I just wanna release all this energy I have inside and then when it doesn't happen my body kind of goes into a "well don't get so excited because you're not getting any" mode. I'm pissed because I don't masturbate and anything other than intercourse doesn't satisfy me.

 

maybe try tapping the temple area of your skull and see if that helps.

 

Its possible he just want in the mood for anything, but being a guy, I highly doubt it. I wouldn't be too worried about it yet, but if you get another weekend with no action, by all means, get suspicious.

 

who doesnt masturbate?

seriously?!

maybe he just felt awkard about it after not seeing you for so long

see what happens next time around before you have a mental break down over it

 

my ex moved to the state over, about an hour and a half to two hours away and we'd only see each other once or twice a week on the weekends, we'd have sex sometimes but not as much as when he was back here. it ended up being he was cheating on me. just ya know, throwing my 2cents in.

 

I just can't get into it...

there's never any awkwardness between us because of the four days we dont see each other

 

Ya, I've had an ex who lived around the same area cheat on me. So of course that's the first thing that comes to mind, but I'm not certain that's what's going on.

 

yeah before him my ex cheated on me also, he lived not to far away about 15 minutes

 

i suggest u get a second boyfriend.

but otherwise i suggest u just go crazy and fuck him. dont wait till he jumps on u.
ur close right?
so jump on him rip his cloths off grab his cock, suck it with all that sexual energy and just fuck.

 

first long distance relationships suck and one person usually ends up cheating on the other, but I wouldn't worry yet. I mean if he's acting out of the ordinary you might get skeptical, but it could just be he was waiting for you to say something and you were waiting for him and you both had a lonely night cuz nobody spoke up. Best thing would be to just ask him about it, you aren't a slut for wanting sex from your bf so it should be something you can talk to him about.

 

Two days a week?!! That is loads!! My bf lives a 4 hour train ride away and we see each other once a month. Long distances do work if you are in it for the long haul, just for the record. Well. Mine is working fabulously.

I really wouldn't worry about this hkk. Get a dildo for farks sake. Maybe he just wasn't in the mood. Don't get pissed off!! You are 22. Be mature about it. Talk to him if it is really such a problem.

 

Oh damn once a month?! I'm sure we can work things out, I'm just so baffled that we didn't do it. I mean maybe he forgot to buy condoms and that's why. He was definitely in some kind of mood. We were making out and playing with each other and I was giving him hints that I wanted him, but nothing past 69ing. I got a dildo and it just didn't satisfy.
I will probably bring this up to him when I see him Friday.

 

I feel like I wrote this. This is me EXACTLY. I wouldn't worry if your bf doesn't feel like doing it for a while. Guys' libidos crash and burn when they're stressed. The time just changed, causing the BIGGEST stress in most people, plus it's just past midterm meaning if he's in school, term papers will soon be due, etc.

As for YOUR stress, invest in a vibrator. They're not as good as the real thing, but at least you can get your release during the week. Also, consider taking up boxing or some other form of cardio to help release your pent up aggrevation.

Back to the bf... Since you've been together for 2 years, I'm sure you know what he likes/ what turns him on, etc. But don't always wait for him to initiate things. Sometimes you have to take things into your own hands. I like rubbing my bf's balls while we're watching TV. Then by the end of the show he's ready to go. You could also try sending him dirty texts of what you want to do to him. Finally, I know my bf's sexdrive takes a dip if he's expected to make love to me everytime, but if I let him fuck me he's much more willing. It's also possible that after 2 years things are getting a little boring and you need to spicen things up a bit. Consider handcuffs, warming/flavored lubes, feathers, role playing, etc.

Hope this helps.

 

I wouldn't worry. He probably just doesn't have a super high libido. I know when I was with a girl that we'd only see each other once a week we would have sex multiple times when we did meet. I can't believe you wouldn't bring it up when you were hanging out that you wanted to go further.

Why can't people just talk anymore? You shouldn't have a problem there's some good advice in this thread. Don't worry about him cheating unless theres more signs.

 

Ya since I've known him he hasn't seem to have an urgency for sex like I do, even though he watches a good amount of porn and occasionally wants it just as frequent.

I didn't bring it up to him because we were only there for two nights and I thought at some point he'd think it was a good time (When his parents were busy or asleep).
And I didn't want to seem selfish

Nikki-As for initiating things, I am always down there...stroking while we're watching something...rubbing his balls, sucking them.
We occasionally use handcuffs, or I agree to/want anal, i am allergic to most lubes though, and I've tried that warming shit and I hate it.

 

if you already know he has a lower sex drive, i wouldnt really worry. but you should definitely ask him why he hasnt been in the mood lately to see if theres anything you can do to help.

 

i think u should kill his porn collection.

hes battin off and stuff when u could be fucking u. what the?

 

He does the porn thing once or twice a week, not when hes with me. most of his collection is on the net so I can't really kill that.

 

web cam fuck





try it its fun lol

 

iv done webcam with me ex. it is cool for a few times.

buy him some quality horny pills? have u thought about that?
go to a bodybuilding shop and buy some testosterone supplments, herbal ones.
but they will make him want to fuck u everychance he can.

i put my ex on good herbal ones for woman. she was sooo horny all the time, she was always ready to take it. and it increased her orgasm quality n stuff.