Lacking wetness.

So when I was with my ex... he could just rub my tummy and i'd get soooo hot and soaking wet.

And now that im with my current boyfriend.. I cant even get wet with my toy. It frustrates me because I know it hurts him. And I am really sick of lube.

Is there any mental techniques or things you suggest (besides getting a new boyfriend) I love him to death and I just want things to work out.

 

That would be so funny if it did, cuz my ex lives in calgary.

 

i would like to know... ummm... how does he look compared to your ex?

does he have less muscle, less hotness about him or anything?

i just want to know.

 

um my ex was alot larger, and tended to never actually get hard. it was just who he was. He also had less experience then my boyfriend now


my boyfriend now would be one of the hottest guys i've dated and hes really skinny.

I've had a few boyfriends with varying looks and I've never had this problem,

 

hmm thats weird.

i do find tho that i prefer to be with girls that are younger and have less experience. it gives me wayyyyy more confidence.

maybe ur worried cause hes hotter and has more experience.

otherwise buy some quality horny pills, (not horny goat weed please) lol

or drink alot more water.

 

I know exactly what you're going through. I'm in the same situation.
Is your current boyfriend as sexually satisfying as your ex? This is one of the biggest reasons why it's difficult for me to get physically turned on quickly. I have too many expectations now.

 

far from satisfying

 

if he isnt satisfying you then u need to try to talk to him dueing tell him where to go to make it feel good. also maybe if u dont want to break up think of something that really tunrs u on like ur ex lol.

 

far from satisying?

how so?

teach him train him tell him. communication.
some people r so silly

unless he has a little dick filll us in

 

you have to talk him, teach him how to get you off. make you want it!

 

i dumped him...problem solved

 

see that was an easy fix!

 

now whos going to get you wet??????

 

I think I know who. Not personally, though. lol

 

haha good for u

 

dang liz,

that dude must've had some amazing hands to get you soaking wet by just touching your tummy

 

yeah, I've known a few guys who can make me wet by just lightly touching me, I have to have a strong attraction for them first though.

 

do some experimentation, to know what's your most sensitive part so it will help ypu and your bf to have a very good intercourse.