Ive been dating this girl for a while, I am madly in love with her. She just went on an FFA trip (future farmers of america) for our school shes 17 im 18. Shes in Indianapolis and Im here in New York. Shes there for the trip she lives down the road from me...Heres my problem. She tells me that at the convention alot of guys hit on her, and like when shes walking will grab her ass or boobs hips and stuff like that. I get really angry about it becuase when I ask, why didnt you do anything, she says there were people in the way. How should I react? Do you think acting like that should make me suspicous of her cheating? She also likes to show cleavage...alot of cleavage, I also dont like that too much becuase I think every guy is staring at her...what should I do? Thanks for the help
If you are in a relationship with a girl you want to last then you need not be jelouse. If you can't trust her not to cheat then why be with her?
She says she loves me and would never cheat. im her 2nd bf and her 1st was like a 1yr. I want the relationship to last. im soo happy with her. All the girls Ive been with either broke up with me or cheated on me. Why would she do all that if she loves me and would never cheat?
I don't think you necessarily need advice at this point dude. She's already told you she loves you and would never cheat on you. Now, before you start thinking all kinds of different scenarios, remember those two things she said to you. Keeping them in mind, let's look at your situation... She told you guys hit on her and try to touch her correct? Now, why would she tell YOU that if she was cheating on you? Wouldn't she try to HIDE it from you? But she told you what was happening. Don't you think that's because she loves you and wants you to know what's been happening to her? The cleavage thing... Maybe she's just comfortable enough with her body to flaunt it. That in itself isn't a sign of cheating. Put it this way, other guys will look no matter what she's wearing. As long as she's attractive, she will attract attention. Before you get upset about that, think that while other guys could just watch, YOU get to do a lot more with her. Be proud to be in a relationship with her, and allow the world to acknowledge her beauty. Plus, maybe she's showing the cleavage because she wants to look sexy for YOU. That's what I think, anyway.
I think she's just being honest with you about guys hitting on her. I tell my boyfriend whenever a guy hits on me because I don't want to ever be dishonest with him. Granted, I don't just sit there and offer the information to him, but when he asks if people hit on me at work/school, I tell him the truth. People groping her, however, I can see how you can get angry over that. I'd get angry if I were you. I think that's something you really need to talk to her about and instead of getting angry, tell her calmly that it really bothers you that she doesn't do anything about it. About the cleavage and stuff...I really think if that's who she is, that's something you have to accept. I don't show off my body in any way, but my boyfriend is proud when guys think I'm hot or if they like my body. I'm going to tell you right now...and take this advice...if you are jealous, possessive, or over protective, she probably will either leave you or cheat. By some of the things you're saying here, you seem to be heading down the path of serious jealousy. I've been that girl in a relationship with a guy that was too jealous...it turned into him being controlling...so I cheated on him then left him. If you are madly in love with her, trust her, talk to her, make sure there is ALWAYS an honest flow of communication between you two.
