My girlfriend is afraid of me going down on her.

Kinda hard to get specifics out of her, she's acting kind of shy and reserved about the subject but mostly what I'm hearing is that the sensations are overwhelming and she's afraid of urinating.

How can I help her get over it? So far my tactic has been to hold her down and force my face into her crotch anyway, date rape style cuz I'm gangsta like that.. Works for me and no accidents so far. I'm 90% certain that "squirting" is pee, so..

I just want to give my baby the intense orgasms I think she deserves..

.. but I don't wanna get peed on

 

get her drunk and do it---shes probably worried about taste tell her she tastes goood and it gives you pleasure to give her pleasure-----make sureshe bathes----lol

 

Real 'squirting' is not urine (although I have strong suspicions that the ones in many porn films are).

As you are no doubt aware, the vagina secretes a lubricating fluid when aroused - some more than others. In some women this fluid can build up during intercourse - often plugged by the penis itself, until she reaches a climax & the orgasmic contractions cause the fluids to be expelled.

 

make her pee first, resure her that its not pee that she will squirt and to relax and let it cumm and squirt on u. use ur fingers the first time she squirts so she is more comfortable.

 

Max, sounds like you're ok so far, especially if she doesn't get mad or anything at being "force pleasured." Maybe you should just spend short amounts of time down there and slowly ramp it up. People are nervous of a lot of things until they get more experience. At the same time, some people will make up silly excuses to cover up the real reason behind their problems.

I agree that porn squirting is often piss, but a real squirt is not lots of lube... it's cum, and it exits the urethra, just like a man's. google (squirting where does it come from)=http://askgarnet.blogspot.com/2007/12/female-ejaculation-or-squirting.html

 

She's probably just scared she has a stanky twat. *shrug*

 

lol, shes definitely not stanky.

and yea, she's not stopping me from going down there and when she tries to pull away, I just hold her down and keep going anyway.. :rofl:

 

I don't like it. Seriously, I don't. Just not comfortable having someone's face down there. It gives me the giggles and I can't concentrate on the purpose. I just want to flick his ear and go "get outta there!"
But if you say she cooperates after you get going, then maybe it's just an insecurity she has about her lady bits...

 

rapists do the same thing

 

thats me..

 

it makes you so cool

 

sure does.

Sorry, your sarcasm got lost in the intertubes.

 

So this is what the Hip Forums have come to? Holding a woman down to get what a guy wants. And we are debating that? Women agreeing as to what is best? If I was skip, I'd give the San Pedro cops the ISP of Max Patlick and ban his 27 yr old gangsta ass.

 

When did you become Max's girlfriend's lord and protector... don't you think if she felt like she was being raped that she would do something about it? Think what you want about Max for what he says on here, but why disrespect the mental faculties of people you've never met and who certainly aren't asking for your help?

 

Wow, really? You honestly think I'm doing something against my girlfriends will with force and malicious intent? Do you take everything you read online so seriously?

Relax, you're going to hurt yourself.

 

Omg just like it's rape if you pull her hair or hold her arms down while you fuck lol gimme a break, such ignorance in this thread. As long as its not against her will then it's not rape, if this was the case I've raped every girl I've been with as I find it hot to hold their arms in every position, this has to do with dominance and submission not rape get a clue.

I'm sry a few of you haven't experienced a sexual experience so intense that you had to be held down for the pleasure, you should really try to get yourself to that point of not being able to take it anymore and then keep going.

 

Max, I dunno why I didn't mention this before, but maybe she doesn't want you down there because she doesn't like to give head and doesn't want to deal with this kind of attitude...
(warning: rant time)
The girl I lost my virginity to was like this. She never really told me that she didn't want to give head until we started having intercourse. She said sex was a better way for both of us to get pleasured... before that she just wouldn't let me get my face down there. Funny thing is that while we were still virgins she had no problem grinding away on me through my jeans and sending me home with some work to do. It was all bullshit in the end anyways, eventually I realized how wrong we were for each other mostly because she was manipulative and controlling and it made me physically sick... I thought I had a cold for about 3 months, turned out I needed to get the hell away from that crazy beazie.

 

yea, she definitely doesn't LIKE giving head... Funny, when we first started going out she SWORE she was amazing at it, without any proof, but now it's like her least favorite thing in the world..

Still, I DO like going down on her. I DO like pleasuring her just for the sake of her reactions. And I DO wish that she felt the same way about pleasuring ME, but it's kinda obvious that she doesn't see it the same way. I've tried explaining it to her, but she just doesn't get it.

Until she does, I'll keep giving her head.. cuz I like it.

 

damn i must of been to rough with my ex one time, i was holding her down and shit, and anyway she kicked me off with all her force and i flew back off the bed and twisted my wrist, had to go to hospital get an x-ray n shit. fuckin bitch.

 

LOL peter!

my gf is kinda the same way about tickling her feet.. she kicked me in the mouth hard enough to draw blood once

I just don't tickle her feet anymore :rofl: