Anyone else have trouble getting hard when the chick is laying there ready for it? I read Peter Poppers thread and it definitely made me feel better about my situation. But I am just wondering how to get more comfortable with things. I believe I need to quit overthinking that kind of shit. I have a hard time even urinating when people are around waiting for me to piss. Like when I used to have to pee in a cup for the doctor or a drug test, my dick just doesn't want to let it out even if my bladder's about to burst. I don't use any drugs at all anymore, so that is not a factor now, I remember when I was using certain drugs my dick would be affected by whatever the chemical. I would greatly appreciate advice/opinions. Thanks for reading!
I went through this for 9mo after a bad breakup and then found a freak and tks to her I got back out there. Try some foreplay man, you might need something besides a naked girl just laying and waiting that might put too much pressure on you to perform, so get her to do somethin sexy for you instead of twiddling her toes. If that doesn't work try one of those supplements that will increase your bloodflow, it's always better to use an aluminum bat instead of a wooden one anyways, go hit a homerun
lol thanks for mentioning me haha maaan i feel ur pain, i have another story to tell u. its not good lets just say that. on friday day i went to this girls house, i wasnt feeling very well. but again i had a shower with her, except this time my dick was limp the whole showe. then we get out and go to her room naked, and she sucks my dick, it goes a bit happy after like couple minits then just nothing. im like fuuuuck not again. but the first time i had a shower with her we were makin out and pressing against each other and i got hard she tugged it a bit but we never had sex. this time was completly flat. i just wasnt horny in the slightest. i think my problem A: is that im on anti-deprssants, and B: i have been taking my horny supplments way to long and now there doing the opposite effect. so anyway i am stopping my horny supplments for 3 or 4 weeks then gonna start taking them again. and ill be super horny i know. those supplments are amazing. go to the bodybuilding shop and buy there most powerfull testosterone boosters. herbal ofcourse. they work wonders. iv got a script for viagra from like last year was thinking of buying some... but its way cheaper to order off the net. so anyway, the girl was like "this is different" like im the only ever guy shes been with that couldnt get hard. lol and i probably was. but shes ok with it i had talked to her about it before, and my drug histroy and my anti-depressants and i told her i will fuck her soon when my dick is fixed.' but i got another girl that wants to be my gf and doesnt want to fuck for 1 month. so works goood for me, ill be back on my horny pillls with no tolerance and have a super hard dick. so thats my dilema fuckin hell it suckss.. its a nightmare ay man lol but oh yeah as for the comfort thing try and suggest taking a shower with them first, cause then u get naked, get over any insecurities u have, then u can just fuck. oh yeah i was freakin sober!
Not being able to get hard is comparable to torture, lol, but I said I felt a little bit better about reading your thread because I don't want to take any pill for that, I know I don't need to, its definitely all in the mind. I advise you to get off those anti depressants, those things fuck with extremely sensitive brain functions. They reroute your shit in a way that street drugs can't. To 420, yeah foreplay gets me hard, its not like I try and jump right into it, it is just sometimes I go limp after the foreplay. It does suck and it was after I had just gotten out of a relationship, and the girl had just gotten out one too...strange. But there is this gal at my school and after talking to a friend about what her deal is, he said that shes had sex with about 15 guys making it sound like a bad thing, I really don't mind that at all, hopefully it makes it easier for me to squeeze in ;] Thanks for responding.
do u get horny with them? for me it was as if i was stone cold looking at this naked girl with absolutly zero desire. yeah well the herbal pills arent a bad option man
Do i get horny with what? The females? yes but the last one I wasn't fully physically attracted lol I just wanted to make sure I was over my ex.
I had the same problem trying to perform with the girl just lying there. That was a long time ago though. I think it was because I felt like I was doing a "duty" that I didn't have enough experience for, so I was really nervous. I never had a problem when kissing would lead to touching and so on because it was heat of the moment. But when I had to catch up in level of excitement I felt the need to rush and therefore wasn't just letting the feelings come to me in a natural way. It was forced.
i can't say that i've ever been in that situation... one time my girl gave me a bj and then i couldn't get it up for round 2. but that's pretty normal because i was tired. all i can say is that this is a wonderful opportunity for you to perfect your skills at cunnilingus. girls like that, a lot!
When it was my gf of 3.5 years, no way! With the exception of the first few weeks, 99.5% of the time I was fine. When it is a one night stand, half the time! I don't know why, I guess my mind wants to be with someone I love.
