OK! Need some Help!

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Ravanofdarkness, Sep 11, 2009.

  1. Ravanofdarkness

    Ravanofdarkness Member

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    Hi, my name is Kevin.

    I'm an American that was born in Germany and am 19 years old and still a Virgin. I really so badly wanna get laid and wanna have a girlfriend but i'm very shy and get nervous around girls and i'm really not sure if i'm good looking enough for any girl. >.<,

    So i'll post a couple Pictures of me on here and want your Opinion of me how i look.

    Also any hints if a girl is interested in me for an example i take often alot of walks outside to check out some of the beautiful women and some of them look at me and smile and turn around while they walk by me still staring at me is that a sign she's interested in me? Also is there a way to tell if women are horny? i know these questions sound really stupid but it would mean alot to me if you all could help me out.

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  2. MaryJBlaze

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    yes, women looking at you smiling is a good indicator that they're into you...that or theyre mocking you, its a fine line...but if they do the turnaround while walking chances are they like what they see.

    theres not really a clear way to tell if a strange woman on the street is horny, unless of course she's humping a light pole or sitting on a park bench and does the classic sharon stone leg uncross/cross.

    dont sweat it so much dude, your time will come, start being more friendly and talkative with women, even the strange ones, dont be shy to give out your number and play kissy face with em'...it'll happen:)
     
  3. Ravanofdarkness

    Ravanofdarkness Member

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    Thank's for your advice.^^
     
  4. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    ya dude...let me say i am no fag but you are handsome enough,you just gotta work on the approach.....as for tellin if a woman is horny,i suggest you wait until get to the heavy petting stage...you will definately be able to tell if she is horny by her body language once the kissin begins....be aware that some dicks on here have been known to shit all over these kind of threads,be tough and ignore them


    confidence is the key
     
  5. Ravanofdarkness

    Ravanofdarkness Member

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    Thank's bro. :D
     
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    To me you look least attractive in the top left corner pic, and most attractive in the top right corner pic...the top left just looks to scruffy and not groomed.

    and I'd definitely say that if any chick took her time to stop, look, smile, and turn around then yes shes more than likely thinking how cute you are.

    that said, i also think you shouldnt rush things..if youre looking for a relationship, because she may just be looking for a one nighter.
     
  7. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    In my opinion I would get rid of the "almost" facial hair. Either have a decent amount or shave.
     
  8. Ravanofdarkness

    Ravanofdarkness Member

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    Thank's for your advice.^^
     
  9. tm89

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    I think you look best in the top and bottom pictures (middles one's not bad though) + I like the facial hair
     
  10. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    you lie!! :D
     
  11. PonyGrl420

    PonyGrl420 Member

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    Nothing wrong with your looks, but I like the 2nd and 3rd pics better.
    If they are taking a 2nd look they prob like what they see, unless you have a weird growth on the side of your head or something.
    Not really a way to tell if a total stranger is horny. I have had some friends that would go straight up to a guy they saw and pretty much be like "your hot wanna fuck?" but I think thats a rarity.

    Dont stress yourself out about talking to girls, we're not gonna bite, well not untill we get to know someone.
    If your worried about making a fool of yourself, try try talking to a stranger. That way if you do at least you know you'll never have to see them again. You can start the convo with something stupid like asking for a light, the time, or ask something about the situtaion (the band thats playing, is she catching any fish etc) Usually you'll know rite away if shes into you.
    The rite girl will come along...
     
  12. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    starting conversation over something stupid never works jsut tell her she beautiful and you want to get to know her.....fuck that indirect shit.
     
  13. PonyGrl420

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    I have started relationships (both romantic and friendly) with a ton of people by just bs'ing over stupid shit, and vice versa. Id have to say it does work.
    Anytime a guy has came up to me and said something that direct I just thought he was cocky, which is a huge turn off.
     
  14. Yazzz

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    Ponygirl is kind of right but you aren't at that stage yet. Right now he's at the just trying to get the first one out of the way stage.

    You're a good looking guy, most likely your first time is going to be with a woman who is more forward - just like mine was, because you are inexperienced and don't know how to take the lead in that situation, so the woman will have to.

    When women hold eye contact with you it means they are interested. Have you ever seen a super hot woman, she won't look very many men in the eye because she's used to having to deal with getting hit on 24/7 so she's very guarded. If they hold your gaise, the door is at least somewhat open meaning she's sized you up already and if you are a good enough guy she's already considered whether or not she'll sleep with you and is leaning towards yes.

    Just realize you're gonna be clumsy as hell the first time and don't stress over it too much. Takes a few times before you relax enough to be good.
     

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