You're going to have to weigh the benefits against the risks. Is some droopy 40 year old poon worth possibly getting kidnapped and butt-raped? We at hipforums can not tell you. Look within yourself.
Pros : you might get some action. Cons: she could be a rapist, a murderer, a kidnapper, anyone. She could even be a He.
I thought of scoping her out first like meet me at this (address) ask her whats she wearing and from a far I can see if am attracted? you get me? I texted here to today she replied....I still thinking if i should call her and meet...
i agree with raz. i have had no major problems with meeting people in person. a couple of times, i have gotten bad vibes, about someone i have ment. no problems getting away from them. we always ment some place like a restaurant. as raz said meet up where there are around you.