(girls) During anal sex, do you let your man...

I agree, astroglide is not good for anal. It dries up, A LOT of people complain about this.

Silicone is best for anal if you are using condoms or not. I personally prefer oil based, but that's me. A lot of the time my girl doesn't need lube for anal. After I eat her pussy and her ass she is pretty wet from vag juice and saliva, plus we have been doing anal for like 8 yrs. so she has LOTS of experience so she is very relaxed and penetration is smooth and pain free for her.

 

Yeah lucky lucky, ive got to find my way to relax, penetration hurts for me.
Everyone keeps saying the rimming thing, so im going to have him try it out.

 

I always cum in her ass.. she likes it.. vaginally she cant feel it so occasionally she asks for it on the tits, face or in her mouth.. "not to waste it as she says"

 

ID Glide is the best lube we've found so far. It's super thick and lasts a really long time. My wife has come to prefer anal sex over anything else. Don't just let him try to put his dick in. Work up to it with a butt plug that is about the same size around as your boy friend. Penetration shouldn't hurt then as long as you find a comfortable position so you can completly relax. My wife prefers to be on her hands and knees with two pillows under her so she doesn't have to hold up her own weight. It lets her completly relax from the waist down. Eventualy you won't need the toy anymore.

 

ok I always take cock from behind but to my vagina. I love him behind behind me he grabs my tits, slaps my ass, fingers me etc. but I have NEVER had anal sex. I am so excited about this but I'm contemplating having a woman willing to strap one on and practice on me.

 

I never used a condom for anal, he always came in my ass. I prefer using ky jelly, it works for me.

 

I tried condoms in my girls ass one time, and she absolutely hated it. I think that anal is only for monogamous couples. The risk of STD's is just too risky for me to try anal with someone I am not fully committed to and vice versa.

I always cum in my girls ass. If we are having vaginal without condoms, about 90% of the time cum in her ass.

I prefer oil based lube honestly. I tried water based and silicone. The water based I find is too thin, it dries up easily. Silicone lube is hard to wash off. I have to scrub the hell out of my cock to get it all off, and it always get in my pubes.

As far as functionality, silicone does work great for anal, but the aftermath of the clean up is a bitch.

 

My wife was also wondering about cumming in her asshole but its not big deal now. We do anal a lot and I cum in her ass all the time now.

 

Hahaha, you're OBVIOUSLY hanging around the WRONG kind of girls, hun! Hmm, you'd think that more college girls would be adventurous and love anal. Idk, maybe that's just the college girls around here. Maybe you should consider transferring colleges!! Haha.

 

The reason is because this is an anal sex forum, so most of the girls on here are OBVIOUSLY interested in anal sex. Just like if you went to an opera, you would find TONS of people who love opera or are at least open to it. Go to the regular world, and hardly anybody likes it.

In the real world many women don't admit they like anal because they don't want to seem like they are dirty or skanky, but the primary reason women don't like anal is because guys don't know how to do it right! There are women however, that are just plain not interested, and we must respect their wishes.

Most women are like your girl, they had that one bad experience with some guy who didn't know what the fuck he was doing, it hurt like hell, and they are turned off, possibly for life.

If more men knew how to do anal right by educating them selves on it, it would not be a problem. I mean, you wouldn't go and work on your car without a good field service manual, then why on earth would you go stick your dick in a girls ass without a manual for that as well.

As guys we have to admit something, the ass is not meant for sex, that doesn't make it's unnatural, but it's the truth. I mean, the mouth is not meant for oral sex either, but no one would disagree that oral can be quite pleasurable. For anal to work it takes proper education followed by preparation. Statistically 1 in 3 women have tried anal, so you have a 33% chance of finding one who will at least let you try it, your girl use to be one of them until some tool ruined it for her.

I have had about 80% success rate with anal BECAUSE I learned how to do it by reading The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex by Tristan Taormino. It's a book written by a women, so it comes from experience.

You can get it from her site:

http://www.puckerup.com/?cPath=&products_id=314&tpid=8

It's an anal sex gold mine. I wish EVERY guy could get a hold of this manual, and anal sex would not have such a negative response from women.

You can't just go ramming away, for god sake, IT REALLY FUCKING HURTS!

 

Cum inside! yea!!

 

It is my guess that most women who engage in anal sex let their partner cum in their ass, I mean, what's the point of anal, if you're going to use condoms (if you're in a monogamous relationship, I totally see the point for casual anal.)

I wouldn't even imagine using condoms for anal.

 

Most guys I'm with like to use condoms. I prefer bareback, but I know it's not the smartest thing in the world, so when we do go bare, yeah, let the cum flow.

 

I thought that was the purpose of anal in a relationship, to have somewhere to go bareback.

 

That's what I'm saying...I'm not in a real relationship. I have a main fuck bud (who always goes bare) and a few others that I mess around with and I usually go bare with them, but most random hook ups don't go bare. So when I'm with anyone new who does, it's quite the treat....although stupid lol

 

I'm a bareback lover, condom does shit even if it's a real thin ones, it reduces a lot of the sensation. I rather avoid having sex than use a condom. Yes my partner luvs it bare and she luvs me shooting my great white into her thight, slingky, warm and pleasurable hole.

I read alot of the woman complaning the sticky feeling after a man shoot it inside. It's easy, don't just be plain lazy by not doing some cleaning after sex, a little enema should do it to clense all the remaining cum inside there.

 

My thoughts exactly! If you are going to use condoms, you might as well stick to vaginal.

I have had anal with a condom before, and it kills the sensation so much that I can't tell the difference between anal and vaginal, but without the condom, the differences are MUCH more noticeable.

But if you are having casual anal sex then condoms are a must, because it's easier to get STD's with anal than with vaginal.

Personally I have NEVER had anal with a non-monogamous partner so I have never been in a situation to have to use a condom for anal, the one time I did use a condom, was the first time I had anal, because I read that you should use one, but 1/4 of the way through it, I took it off and went bareback.

 

By leakage, they mean, after you come in her ass and you pull out, the cum will start to leak out, as a result, it can cross the perineum and into her vagina, resulting in what is known as a splash contraception.

According to statistics, there is an 8% chance of this happening. If you are scared of this happening, do anal from the front, that way, when you pull, and the cum starts to dribble out, it simply goes with gravity down her butt crack, away from the vagina, it's not a guarantee, but it will reduce the chances, you just have to make sure when you pull out, you don't drip into her vagina.

Another technique is to make sure when you cum, you cum deep in her ass balls deep, cumming in her shallow will result in your cum instantly leaking out, this helps with that I have found.

 

i cum in her ass and she likes it.

 

It makes you wonder about the reality of the "Immaculate Conception" - not only is it physically possible, it's far from being unknown.