anyone else feel bad after masturbating

sometimes after i jack off i end up feeling really annoyed with myself. there isnt any particular reason but if i have any porn on my computer i often end up deleting it and thinking 'im never masturbating again' but then 10 minutes later im horny again and i regret deleting my porn etc.

anyone else get this?

does anyone have any ways to avoid this as its a bit annoying when i delete my porn and have to wait ages to download somemore.

 

stop downloading porn unless you want to infect your computer and start streaming it...
i recommend xnxx.com, 89.com, porncor.com.

masturbating can be addictive since it releases dopamine... try going without for a week...

 

How about just enjoy masturbating? That's what I always do, lol. It feels good, you're not hurting anyone, it's safe sex, and did I mention it feels good?

Consider masturbation as the basics of all forms of sex. Nothing to be annoyed about. ;-)

 

...anything that releases dopamine, IMO, can have positive AND negative effects.

 

It could be a "dopamine crash" after the high of orgasm, coupled with some sort of socially imprinted moral shame for masturbating. I remember feeling that way when I was younger. I got over it, as you will hopefully. Now all orgasms make me happy, especially the intense toe curlers. The only time I feel disappointed is if I cum too fast.

 

I feel pretty bad about it sometimes. Usually the middle of the afternoon jobs, when you know you should be doing something more productive.

 

As to downloading porn, yes there are risk to doing so, but if you think you are safe on other sites, especially sites like FaceBook your kidding yourself. Get good firewall software as well as antivirus/anti-adware/anti-malware apps (many of the good ones are free). Run these latter after every time you go online, just before you shut down. No guarantees, but it will help protect your computer, identity and data.

 

This has been my experience and it was worse in the dark ages of the 1950s. No sex ed, no internet with ppl telling us that jacking off was not "self-abuse."

However, by the time I reached late teens, there were enuf of us guys admitting to doing it that we figured it was normal after all.

 

i felt bad after the first couple times, then i just let go & now i dont feel bad at all and yeah... xxnx.com -best place everr.

 

Hell to the no, I feel great afterwards. That's the only way to feel for me.

 

I feel pretty damn good afterwards.

 

Well pretty much straight after orgasm, right?

It's a normal feeling. I agree with some of the posters - just give it a break for a while.

L_S

 

Immediately after orgasm, I usually think of practical things, like what kind of sandwich I'm going to make or that I have to mow the grass or something, lol

 

Only for the first months or so after i started doing it. Which was many years ago.

 

i used to when i was young. i felt like an outcast.
but then i realized eveyone was doing it and i felt fine (well, better that fine

 

I think as you get older, get used to it, and mature more you lose that feeling. I used to have it, but not anymore.

 

Really. Most negative feelings from masturbation that you are experiencing probably come from socially ingrained feelings of guilt toward masturbation.

One of the special benefits of this forum is to openly accept and encourage one's masturbation addiction. And also to share and explore new auto-erotic territory, adventures, and techniques with an approving and admiring group of like-minded others.

This forum is a virtual opium den -of masturbators. It becomes quickly apparent to visitors here that "... everyone's doing it..." and thoroughly enjoying it!

But masturbation, for us, is best done at night. As the masturbation experience is so intense, we're totally wasted afterwards. But we usually simply fall into a deep sleep, and wake up the next morning completely rejuvenated and refreshed, and happy.

We've tried masturbating in the morning, sometimes at noon, and sometimes in the afternoon, but the rest of the day is just a complete haze. Totally wasted and disfunctional. This may explain some of your "bad" (and maybe debilitating) feelings afterwards. So we suggest you try to hold off until bedtime, if you can.

Also, even though we are enthusiastic about our masturbation addictions, we caution that going it alone, to the exclusion of the pursuit of intimate friendship, may create long-range developmental problems. That is, cause an inability to eventually form a satisfying relationship with an actual lover. It's all too easy to masturbate and retreat back into your own bubble, and not spend the time and effort in developing a lasting friendship.

We strongly feel that taking the unusual step of cultivating a masturbation addiction is for lovers only. Mutual masturbation is not only incredible fun and totally satisfying, but it also has a built-in reality check that prevents one from going off the deep end, into depression and other self-destructive habits.

We hope this explains some of the feelings you are experiencing.

And always feel free to express your feelings and concerns here.

hugs,

HotCaliforniaCouple

 

Sometimes I have, especially if I feel I should have done at other times, or I've been late for something as a result.

 

sure am glad as i b'ain't be the only one. I used to feel terrible, and have a sort of 'oh god what have i done?' feeling in the morning, but less and less now.

 

I hear you, xnxx is my favorite site