Is it possible to be too lubricated (naturally)? Could this really affect sex? too much information follows Last night the new bf and I tried to have sex (only our 2nd time since we started dating a month ago) but ended up not being able to. He claimed I was too wet (I dont think I was) and that sex is impossible that way. I also thought maybe him not being super hard was helping make it impossible? He's 16 years older than I am, and I've never had this problem with any other guy I dated or even the first time he and I had sex. So Is being too wet a legitimite excuse, am I being unreasonable towards him?? Oh one more thing....since we couldnt have sex, he fingered me and idk why it kept hurting since I was supposdly so wet but now I have a small tear. It feels like a papercut hurts like hell, its pretty small but still visible. Am I supposed to go to the dr for this or is there anything I can do easily at home for it? thanks <3
Good male lovers keep their fingernails real short so they don't cause any damage to sensitive spots. Did you check his nails? I've never heard of a problem with being too wet. That's usually the solution, not the problem.
well, you could suggest he lick up the excess... but if you were so wet, he fingering should not have hurt.
lol thanks for the suggestions....actually his nails were super short and he was amazing the last time.
