Have you tried it, just for the curiosity?

A lot of guys have had the curiosity, but have you ever made the move to experience it?
How did you feel about doing it? Did you enjoy it? Did it satisfy your curiosity or open the door to a new world of pleasure?
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Haven't tried it myself, perhaps one day. I've always wondered what it would be like.

 

What is 'it' that's in question..?

 

Well, this is the Bisexual board, so I assume the OP is asking about your first bisexual experience.

 

I found men to be very attractive, and wanted to have sex with them. It really was the attraction and not the curiosity.

KD

 

Just seemed a tad vague is all, wasn't sure which sort of bisexual experience he was referring to.

But in that case, I have tried it, yes.

 

My very first sexual experience was homosexual. We did not think of ourselves as homosexual at the time. We were young. 9 and 10 years old. We were discovering things about our bodies that we had never experienced. And it never went beyond mutual masturbation. These experiences did set my attitude about sex and just who I can play with. Much later in life when I was married I had an opportunity to engage in oral sex with a close male friend. I had no reservations about going though with it. I discovered that I enjoyed the experience.

 

Are you only asking men? I have had sexual experiences with other women over the years. I don't really think of myself as bisexual, though. I think sometimes things just happen, and it doesn't necessarily reflect your "orientation".

 

You may be right. I am not all that attracted to guys, just willing to play if the opportunity come up. The ladies turn me on a lot more.

BTW Nice hair granny

 

I would, and will if my girl approves and I ever meet the right guy.

 

Yeah, I think for most people sexuality is a continuum. Some people are right in the middle, other people are more toward one end or the other. I'm toward the hetero end, but I'm not totally 100% there ...

 

Is your girl bisexual? It's nice that she's so open-minded

 

I didn't mean to imply that she necessarily would.

My girl is like me - as far as we know straight - with attraction to our own sex - and bi-curiosities - that we aren't quite sure how to read - though, we recognize it hardly is anything to worry about.
Only difference is, it seemed in her nature not to worry about it - when I had a few years of sexual identity crisis on and off. And my bi-curiosity could be fueled by slight narcissism.

As far as the open-minded = before we got really serious she was very open minded - particularly about bringing another girl into our play.

Then she went through a super jealous phase - and one day I snapped and basically told her that that's not how it's going down and all that can do is destroy our relationship (only over the course of about 6 hours =P).

Now, she seems to be fighting a little with mild jealousy. So now wouldn't quite be the time.
But she is very open minded as far as sex in general. She doesn't seem to judge at all. Recently, I've finally brought out my cum play fetishes a little bit - and she didn't get the least bit weirded out or anything.
So, once I can get her to finally realize that I'm hers as much as she's mine - then we'll be good to go =P

 

I'm happy to hear that you laid down the law to her, and let her know that it's your way or the highway. Anything else could destroy your relationship.

 

Yup. You have to be loving and understanding in a relationship - but a lot of people don't realize that sometimes you both have to put your respective feet down, and the partner should know how to respect it if it's reasonable.

Oh, and thank you. =)

 

There in lies the problem, my idea of reasonable can at times be much different than my wifes idea of reasonable, and I,ll bet that is common with most people trying to get what they want or need.

 

I'd say compatibility is key, but that's sure easy to say coming form someone who hasn't had any problems with it yet.

Really, though, I think most people cause more conflicts than run into conflicts. Or I'm just too lucky.

 

My wife and I are very compatible on most levels and have a strong loving relationship,BUT and I do mean BUT, I am WAY more adventuress sexually and would like to explore many more things than her personal boundaries will allow. That is where we differ on what is reasonable.

 

I can really relate to this. When Val and I were first married she was quite up for the adventure. However, as time passed and saturation changed she has become less and less adventurous. This is why I know that my fantasies will have to remain fantasies.

 

I think that's the way it is with most couples, especially if you've been together for a long time. I know it was for my husband and me. And plenty of people are perfectly comfortable with that. But if not, you just have to force yourself to slip outside your boundaries.

My husband is gone now and I'm an old lady, but I find myself thinking about sexual adventures that I wouldn't have thought about 10 years ago. I'm gonna do them too!