I don't understand why...

If I wait a week or so without masterbating, because my partner and I promise to wait until we get to see eachother, it is 5X harder for me to cum.
Does anyone else have this problem?

 

thats a good thing.

 

How so?

 

cause u can fuck her 5x longer. and make her cum more.

get her to suck ur dick for like 20 minits before u have sex... or however long u think.
then fuck her for an additional 15 minits... or whatever time frame ur looking at. im just guessing.

 

lol. I'm a girl, and no lesbian.

 

ohhh lol i didnt think it made sense.

hmmm i dont know.
i would of thought the longer without the quicker u cum, that definatly applies for men anyway.

maybe cause woman need to be worked up. so during that week ur cooled all the way down, and it takes longer to heat u up again and get u horny and in the mood.
guys on the other hand dont really have that problem,.

ur 16 thats soo hot lol

 

Why the fuck would you stop beating off in the first place?

 

no you will cum in 5 secs! So go and have a wank!

 

Peter- Yeah, I can see that as being a good explanation.

tool- I have no effin clue lol. Never goes the way it was intended.

loughman- no, that's precisely the opposite of what I said. Lol.

Guys are lucky their organs aren't so complex.

 

yeah i dont know what the fuck those other two are on about.

but what u talkin about, u dont have to worry about being limp lol. or cummin to quick or anything. girls are the lucky ones.

 

True, but you guys don't have to worry about being too tight for good positions or not cumming during. Guys always cum lol

 

being too tight? no way, the tighter the better. dont fret about being tight, when ur older you;ll think man i wish i was that tight again.

and yeah guys cum alot easier than girls.
u should get ur boyfriend too lick u out before u have sex. so u cum once, then when u have sex try n do positions that hit ur gspot and hopfully u can cum more.
or if he cumms before u can, get him to fuck u for a bit, then pause and get him to rub ur gspot for a while to bring u along, then he can fuck a bit longer.. and so on.

 

Well my for my fave position it's hard to do when I'm so tight after not doing anything for a while. Thats what I mean

Weve tried a lot of that but sex doesn't really do much for me, even tho my bf is really good at it lol

 

so what do u mainly do to get off? he licks u out?

have u got him to rub ur gspot alot? have u had gspot orgams? or just clittoral orgasms?

when u have sex do u do it in positions that his dick puts alot of pressure on ur gspot?
im just curious here.

 

Lol it's ok I'm a pretty open minded person.

Usually he eats me out, yes. Occasionally he gets me off by fingering and rubbing my clit at the same time, or just the clit. I've came once from him hitting the gspot, but it was nothing compared to clittoris attention.

We usually do it either doggy or reverse cowgirl (when he sits straight up instead of laying down) So, moderate pressure.

 

yeah sounds pretty good. sounds similar to what me n my X would do.
if ur doin doggy on the bed, go all the way down. so ur lying on ur stomach and while hes fuckin u he can come up a bit and it puts massive pressure on the gspot even if he isnt thrusting.
can u squirt when u have a gspot orgasm?

my dick bends slighlty down, called an N bend i think. it means doggy and reverse cowgirl are better positions to hit gspot. then theres U curve i think it is, and its when the penis bends up. face to face postions are better with that curve for gspot stimulation.

 

Hmm I don't think I've squirted while actually cumming.

What's a good possition for one the bends up and more to the side? Just wondering lol

 

i guess just more face to face positions.

 

The more sex you have the more turned on you get. Solo sex is still sex as far as your nervous and vascular systems think. If you don't have sex your body doesn't get sexual stimuli, less blood gets to the genital area. The sexual part of you goes into the rest mode.